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I'm no expert but a lot of guys might be scared off by the "clean up" concept
GoldieKnox See my TER Reviews 563 reads
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Which was the perspective I was trying to explain.  
It's not my perspective but one I have conversed with dates and potential dates about.

 
To some people any time two men are involved is scary to them and could mean she loses a date. I have also had people say they won't see provers who double with TS providers. I am only pointing out that some people may not understand or feel comfortable with the thought their date engaged in something they find "wrong" or whatever. I am only trying to suggest being mindful that unless you're trying to do more dates like that because you're into it go for it but if you're offering it to try to drum up business it might backfire.  

To each their own! Now everyone go get naughty!

I've posted for these sessions in the past and got a TON of inquires. A few clients booked the session, but most talked badly about it. What are your guys' thoughts? Thanks!

Some men are very homophobic and not entirely comfortable with the thought of their provider doing something they may consider "gay" or "higher risk".

 
There are a lot of people who still associate STDs as being more prevalent in the gay communities which could scare those of that mindset away from booking you.

 
After I took off couples and my MFM and male doubles info I noticed an upswing in my inquiries.  

 
Just my .02

I would like to kindly point out Lopaws post as the other party being someone's SO. While we all don't know exactly who we are sleeping with, in this sort of situation, the relationship is monagamous eliminating a high risk situation. It would be, in theory, very low risk. ESPECIALLY if there is no male interaction. Everyone would always play safe!

Cuckold can be limited to the man watching the woman with another male
Or to the next extreme of wanting the providers actual lover with her (who she might not use protection with and that could add to the arousal factor) which could lead to wanting to do a "clean-up" which is why I mentioned the homophobia possibility. Some people might assume it could be MM contact or that it's just watching but without putting very specific details you'll probably get like you did before - a lot of inquiries.

 
My only point is that when two men are involved some people go "yikes" and might pass on a booking as even just a solo date.

 
I don't care who does what and hope everyone can enjoy whoever they like no matter the gender/fantasy but realize that here sometimes less is more in terms of what you say you offer so you don't alienate possible dates. Just my .02

FakawiTribe435 reads

I can see maybe removing MFM type stuff but why remove couples? Many providers see couples and there isn't any stigma associated with that. I don't get it.

Can someone explain it to me like I'm a 2 year old, which is how I feel right about now.I googled it but I'm not sure what it is.......duhhh. PM if you like.

...that cuckold is a situation where a wife takes on lovers as she pleases, denying her husband sex which he accepts and becomes very subservient to her and her whims. It's a fetish power play type thing. I would imagine that a session may involve a provider bringing along a male lover and the cuckold hobbyist would willingly watch them having sex knowing that he can do nothing but observe and maybe even clean them up afterwards. It has  nothing to do with homosexuality and is more about submission and female domination. A major fetish thing.

Hopefully ashleydior can correct me if I'm wrong.

You absolutely correct, Lopaw. It is about domination and humilition although there can b MM interaction.

AndAnotherThing529 reads

the fetish quants at Goldman Sachs.

Which was the perspective I was trying to explain.  
It's not my perspective but one I have conversed with dates and potential dates about.

 
To some people any time two men are involved is scary to them and could mean she loses a date. I have also had people say they won't see provers who double with TS providers. I am only pointing out that some people may not understand or feel comfortable with the thought their date engaged in something they find "wrong" or whatever. I am only trying to suggest being mindful that unless you're trying to do more dates like that because you're into it go for it but if you're offering it to try to drum up business it might backfire.  

To each their own! Now everyone go get naughty!

We have gotten a number of inquiries for this and do offer it when requested. If done properly, it is no more risky than any other encounter as there is no reason that everyone cannot play safe. Most of the interest does involve some verbal degradation and humiliation. In that way, it is really no different from other roleplaying.

We can see how some ladies may not like performing this role because usually the man wants to be put down harshly, which can be difficult for those who prefer to be nice.

We have opened up to it and expect that it will be something that we continue to do upon request. We have not had a bad experience with it personally.

Hope that helps.

Tori & Nick

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