Hi all,  

I'm a "pay-to-play virgin" in LA who's lurked TER for a while but never pulled the trigger. Well it's been a dry spell for me lately and I'm ready to pull the trigger on finding myself a provider for the first time--but I'm nervous about the usual issues of safety, lack of ability to provide references, and especially LE. The latter being why I've never gone through with a booking in the past.

So maybe a kind soul can guide me through some recommendations. I am a well-spoken, respectful, and attractive 30 y/o Caucasian gentleman interested mostly in Asian women, ideally with a softer touch, more GFE than all-business to put me at ease, starting simple (massage + HE) or diving right in. It's a little overwhelming looking through the ads at all the great options here! I'm wondering how others have started out, especially those a little nervous like me, and if anyone has any recommendations where and with whom to begin.  

Thanks for entertaining my curiosities and lending a helping hand!*

-GG

*no pun intended