I got enough sleep the night before.  If I'm tired, I'm more inclined to be a little laid back and go with the flow.  If I completely rested, I like to take charge.  Its an age thing.  If you're under 50, you probably wouldn't understand.

am trying to connect with a professional submissive lady who tours, missed out on the last time she was here (i got sick, dammit).

tho i am not physically dominant (i'm old and not that strong, so i let the girls do most of the work) but i like to direct the action.  however there's one lady i see that likes to direct the action.  tho at this point i wouldn't call any of my sessions any sort of dom/sub action.

with one exception:  a popular lady i've seen a few times really tended to run the show, not in a bad way, but with very little room for me to do anything more than sit back and enjoy the ride (and enjoyable it was).  until one role play when she dressed as a nurse, i dressed as a doctor (she didn't know before hand i would) and demanded she finish her nurse's training under me before she could have patient privileges.

i directed the whole show, with just a smidgen of humiliation thrown in (she had told me in a previous session that she could be a submissive and enjoyed it).  i know she enjoyed this session, i could literally see the proof dripping out of her.

i'm not dominant by nature, but i do know what i like.  i'm looking forward to connecting with the professional submissive and learning more.

during my usual sessions i would say that i like to trade off with the lady, sometimes she suggests what to do, sometimes i suggest what to do.  we have fun, which is the name of the game lol

"Butch in the streets, femme in the sheets"...

Lol well not really butch, but I do love a sexually aggressive woman to match my submissive bedroom style..

I'm Sensually Dominant...

and am most turned on taking charge in the bedroom. During my "exploration phase" I visited the BDSM world and it was the sensual slaves and fetish communities that resonated with me the most. I personally enjoy bedroom level play, but if you're finding that you want to increase the intensity of your experiences that you do so with someone that really has mastered their technique.

Someone wanted me to go pretty dominant (close to S&M) on her and it wasn't quite my cup of tea.  I'm a believer in equality where everyone gets to find happiness together.

I'm dom more than I might be IRL.  It's to the point that if part of a provider's brand is that she is awesome at being a dom, I'll pass.  Stronger leaning towards advertised sub or I just know from the chemistry.

Sub and Dom

Agree with this, I tend to be both depending on the situation but submissive really lets you see your partner's kinks. Cheers.

With most of my guy friends, I aim to please and please I do.  I have 1 very special person who I am Submissive with.  Our time together is sub/dom but also good old regular sex.  This is because after 8 years together the trust is there.  All he has to do is Tell me.... then to that special place  I go..... life is good.

I absolutely LOVE to be submissive!  Such a turn on!