I hit it off with my coworker and we agreed to become sexual. That was when I deactivated my TER
We went down into the parking lot during work hours and she blew me in my car for 3 minutes. She must have sensed my nervousness and that must have turned her off because she became cold to me after that. Her body language became negative. I took the initiative and broke it off with her but we remained friends.
We had a good friendship for a week but then she finds some random asshole on facebook and begins telling me how hot he is. Guy is a drug addict, looks like a comical version of vanilla ice, etc. Something out of middle school. She's now going to fucking fly 3000 miles to meet this guy and have endless sex for days. Someone she met online and doesn't really know. I didn't have a chance to deal with my feelings for her so all of this pisses me off. We have fought many times since. We're civil now but I dislike her and there is a definite sense of hostility between us (don't shit where you eat people)
Long story short, it reminded me why I love this community and the ladies in it. I'm so fucking pissed about this whole thing and I'm so sick and tired of the bullshit I have to deal with just to get my fucking dick wet. I'm only 30 years old and I have no patience left.
-- Modified on 5/6/2016 4:46:19 PM
not sure what the life-lesson is for the rest of us, unless its, "Don't fall in love with a girl that gives you a 3-minute blowjob?" What am I missing here?
The girl is obviously a psycho, flying across country to meet an internet friend. What is she, 13 yrs. of age? Hope she's not too hot, that always makes these things more difficult. Hostility is your best friend right now.
Have to agree, bullet dodged there, my friend. It's reasons like this why I just don't fall in love. Best solution: email your ATF and let her do what she does for you.
agree sound like spoil rotten brat.. Teenager
and dumb ass to be fucking strangers for free?
She should be at least be charging LOL
At least guys on hoobie
U can check references Smiling..
Get over
Life is short
NEXT....
Kisses Carla
-- Modified on 5/7/2016 9:29:17 AM
That, too, but I didn't want him to think I was kicking him while he was down. Even though you're one of us guys (at least mentally), it sounds more helpful coming from you. You can never underestimate what a well-placed tongue can do for a relationship. I agree with you. Maybe a little reciprocity would have kept her interested.
It sometimes surprises me at how simple things should be, but are made unnecessarily complicated by some well-meaning but misguided guys. If you have an opportunity to be with a woman who might be a bit skittish, or you just want to seal the deal, just try getting her off first. Works every time. It might be too late for the OP & this coworker now, but maybe if there is a next time he'll do better.
I was never given the chance. The bj was a very spontaneous thing we decided to do during work hours.
I told her that I'd love to go down on her but she pulled away before there was an opportunity. Unfortunately she is really hot, has a great sense of humor, and gave amazing head. Now that mouth is going to be wrapped around some losers cock and not mine. And worst of all, he didn't even have to do anything to get, pussy just fell on his lap. She messaged him first and she is the one flying out
-- Modified on 5/7/2016 12:08:55 PM
...a coworker willing to spontaneously suck your dick in a parking lot, who is also willing to fly cross country to fuck an internet stranger, isn't going to break things off with you because you got nervous during a blowjob. Doesn't add up.
Well,you already broke it off with her according to your story. Did you expect her to remain celibate? Maybe you could have tried to work it out with her and find out why she got cold. Maybe you still can before it's too late. It sounds like you had a crush and my sympathies. Best of luck to you.
his psychic profiler powers would have revealed her dark nature!
dammit. sorry man. must be bored. but hell at least i made you laugh right!