It's happened to me a few times (and I'd be willing to wager it's also happened to quite a few guys on here). You may want to consider booking a longer appt. so that you'll have time to let the nerves settle. I always prefer doing a 1 1/2 to 2 hrs starting appt appt with a new girl just so I can ease into it and not feel pressured or rushed or anxious. Or have a drink or a toke, whatever may help you feel relaxed. But at the end of the day, the goal here, imho, is to have fun, make some new friends, and most importantly be happy!
So I had my first visit with an established provider though I didn't know the whole menu. She kissed but perhaps not as much as I needed and no DATY which I definitely needed. I am 53 and no I am slowing down. Get bi-weekly testosterone shots and took Cialis on the "day". Long story I just couldn't work with a condom but was able to orgasm with bbbj. I have never been the guy who sleeps with a woman on day, yes I am embarrassed to call myself a guy lol but not really sure if it's the situation, the condom, the anxiety or just me. Not that I get a lot at home being married but occasionally doesn't work as well as other days but it works TMI I know.
I guess none of you will have the real answer other then me trying again with a different provider but curious if others have overcame similar problems to actually enjoying the entire process.
Its perfectly natural for every man to occasionally experience performance anxiety. After all, you are over fifty and suddenly find yourself with a much younger woman who looks like a goddess, and you never thought you would ever be with a woman like that again, so you start over-thinking things and the anxiety increases.
I would suggest you try a Kgirl that has a routine, and then just relax, clear you mind, and go with the flow. Most Kgirls follow a bit of a script the first time out with new customers who are not being aggressive right out of the gate in what they want. They will take you through their menu (DFK, DATY, BBBJ, various positions for intercourse) and get you where you want to end up. Don't think about anything except how great it all feels.
That and being TOO concerned about your performance. BTW, 53 isn't usually THAT old in terms of this.
So I'd say, yes, wait a couple of weeks and try again with someone completely different. And in the interim do some shopping, read the reviews, and select someone you not only find attractive but who you think you might have more "fun" with. More playfulness and maybe a bit of light-hearted interaction before the main event. That's strictly my opinion, how I might react were I in your shoes, so maybe read this as how you would alter the advice to apply to your personality and expectations.
And maybe consider taking a lower dose of Cialis next time.
Female condoms are the closest thing to bbfs. It's part of the TER profile so you don't have to wake her beforehand. However it's a relatively new feature to the profile and somewhat inaccurate.
Dude, he wants to see an escort, not his wife. Although I'm sure there are providers out there who would rather sleep through the date. You find them on Backpage.
It's happened to me a few times (and I'd be willing to wager it's also happened to quite a few guys on here). You may want to consider booking a longer appt. so that you'll have time to let the nerves settle. I always prefer doing a 1 1/2 to 2 hrs starting appt appt with a new girl just so I can ease into it and not feel pressured or rushed or anxious. Or have a drink or a toke, whatever may help you feel relaxed. But at the end of the day, the goal here, imho, is to have fun, make some new friends, and most importantly be happy!