backstory: my wife of 35 yeas left me 8 months ago, we've been living separately since then. we talk, we're civil, but she doesn't want to live with me.
so earlier this week in a phone call she tells me she's filing the divorce papers. i am devastated. i had thought that there still might be a chance for us to get back together, because she never said she hated me (quite the opposite, she insists she has deep feelings for me), and she never filed the papers. but now, i get incredibly depressed.
well i had scheduled a session with one of my atfs for today before all this happened, and i figure i could use a distraction, so i go to see her. i get to her apartment and she asked how things are going, and i tell her everything.
this lovely woman spends more than an hour talking with me, giving me positive ideas, tangible things to do, to get my life going on. she makes viable suggestions for how i can get joy back into my life, all the while telling me how handsome and great and funny i am.
and then, she changes into her "work clothes" (i had requested a sexy maid) and we began a wonderful, erotic time on the sofa and then further into the bedroom.
it wasn't the best sex i ever had with a provider. but it was the loveliest, most comforting time i ever had, touching many many emotions. and actually the sex was pretty good (we achieved a few things we never had before).
so we clean up, i get dressed, tell her how great she is, as she does me, and i walk out feeling so much better.
and this girl gave me 3+ hours of her time for an envelope worth less than half that.
plus the cherry on the sundae is that she asked me to be her date for the meetn greet coming up!
anybody that says the women who do this are doing it only for the money is full of archaic out of date ideas, which is a fancy way of saying bull sh!t.
i want to thank all the lovely ladies that do this for the joy of sharing. you have all made me a much better man.
they do it just for the money. As you point out, sometimes they do it because they need a classy, handsome, witty, older gentleman to escort them out to a function, and there are precious few of us left.
At least from your board "persona," you seem like a personable, genuinely good dude. Keep your head up.
As for your lede, I agree. I'm very new to the "hobby," but the two women I've seen so far have truly made me feel special as I struggle with a breakup of my own. I know part of it is the "professional fantasy" I'm paying for, but I'd also like to think I've made genuine connections, too, no matter how fleeting/temporary. Either way, it's just what I've needed and I'm grateful for the recent bit of joy interrupting half a year of confusion and pain.
Some providers seem to genuinely care about their jobs and the people they see. In my experience so far, spending time with the right ladies can be extremely therapeutic, both physically and emotionally.
and good luck to you too bud
Providers = 2, Reviews = 0 is not a great score so far.
I'm a bit introverted in general, and my preference is not to review unless something prompts it. Though both of the ladies I've seen were absolutely perfect (in my estimation), they're both very highly reviewed and - when asked - were nonplussed about the "need" for a review.
If I had a truly negative experience, I'd likely be motivated to write a review. Alternatively, if I had a great experience with someone fairly new to the industry (who asked for a review to help promote her brand), I'd probably do just that (I'm a "pleaser" by nature).
But, if it's "all the same" to the provider I've been with, my general position is to avoid posting reviews. I know that makes me a "leech" on the TER community in some folks' eyes and I apologize if that's the case here.
...was way out of line telling you to review. When he starts his own website, he can make the rules. But right now, "he's not the boss of you." He's my friend but I would not have been as polite as you - I would have told him to fuck off and mind his own business.
Haha, no worries. I wasn't offended and I can see his point of view. I'm just not really in a "reviewing" headspace right now. I'm enjoying being a wide-eyed hobby tourist while it still lasts. =)
Besides, there's enough unsolicited nastiness flying around on the TER boards (see later on in this discussion re: BPJ's "cheating," etc.) without me adding to it. I've got a thick skin.
It's not about having thick skin.
CDL is not running this site or any of the forums and therefore is way off base to make the post that he did as if he has some authority.
We all know that not everyone reviews and there's no requirement to review. Though it's nice if everyone contributes in one way or another.
Like you, I don't care to add to the nastiness that rears it's head now and then
how many don't get it when humor is subtle. It was meant to be a humorous invitation to join the reviewers on the this site. He is obviously articulate. We need more reviewers like that. I thought doing it like a sports score would be funny. Some here need to lighten up and get a sense of humor. Don't make me dumb things down for fear of being attacked.
Something a duck with a speech impediment says.
Less subtle? PM me if you need an explanation. Lol
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But Im just gald to hear there are ladies treating you right.
That is what this is about.
Just think of the upcoming party as the beginning of a new chapter in your life.
Best Wishes,
Ken
you mention "atf" which suggests youve been seeing escorts while married to your wife. To me thats BS. you get no sympathy from me. You dishonored your vows and disrespected your wife. If more to it then ill apologize if im out of line.
As for escort not all about the money...well let see you paid her and so she offered GFE and sex. Isnt that what good escorts do? The fact she wants to take you to a meet and greet. Thats what atfs do with regulars..offer extra to maintajn business. Its pretty normal. I doubt she would have seen you and banged you if you didnt pay her. So not sure what your point is.
You don't know the circumstances of his marriage. There are millions of different marriage dynamics out there. Through the years, they could have agreed on a mutual break to see other people or simply had an open marriage to begin with. There are all manner of possibilities to consider or that might be kept private before you declare this man BS, as you call it.
Though I am a bit more cynical on the service. I've never had a long-term ATF or received anything like the service you have. But then, I may not be as handsome as you.
Though I am a bit more cynical on the service. I've never had a long-term ATF or received anything like the service you have. But then, I may not be as handsome as you.
Marriages are not all black and white. There are many ways to have a marriage work, and sometimes marriages stay together to minimize collateral damage to loved ones, but the passion is gone, so you do what you can to take care of the sexual aspect of your life elsewhere. Oftentimes, the wife knows and is cool with it because its no longer a priority for her, but she accepts that you aren't ready to hang up your spurs yet. There's many ways to make things work. You can't really say someone's way of life is bad until you're walked in their shoes.
as those are reasons i can understand but he offered nothing of the sort. just that he needed to be pleasured to satisfy his self needs because his wife couldn't get him off...
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This thread is making me crack up. Who cares why he did what he did. It's his choice. And he wasn't whining he was just saying what a great experience he had. Jesus. The moral police should put their badges away and stfu.
So since you admitted that, you probably don't have any business commenting on the other.
There are a variety of reasons a wife can actually drive her husband to do this. Often a marriage is already basically dead and that drives a man to do this. It could be an open marriage. The wife could be playing little games of her own like withholding sex to try and manipulate her husband into doing things he does not want to. Or it could be a man who still has a strong sex drive while the wife lost all interest in sex. In those cases, is it really worth getting divorced if a lack of sex is the only issue? Is it really "cheating" if it is something your wife is not interested in having in the first place?
There are no right or wrong answers here. At least BPJ is being open and honest with his feeling. So before you get all judgmental, how about you post some of the skeletons in the closet of your life on the board? It has been my experience that people who are very judgmental are often projecting their own issues on others. Such people are often some of the world's biggest hypocrites!
From what I understand, it appears that the majority of hobbyists are married. I may be wrong about they being the majority, but there are a lot of married guys doing this for any number of reasons. I know a lot of them feel that their marriage is sexless, or emotionless or both, but impractical or unduly expensive to get out of. Filling that void with one or a few of the wonderful ladies here can actually work to keep the marriage intact. Or prolong the agony as it may be.
It's probably likely that BPJ's wife is seeing other men, hence the filing. That's the usual situation. Some may call that Karma, but a failed marriage is never easy to suffer through. I agree with him 100% that at least here in L.A., there are some great genuinely caring ladies that can help get us through anything from a hard day at the office to much greater trials and tribulations
point as well. Divorce seems like a nuclear option compared to adding a provider or two to your life if lack of sex is the only issue in the marriage.
I agree that the majority of hobbyists are married. I'm not one of them, but I sympathize with what they have to do to keep their sanity and not hurt children or other family members by doing something else that breaks up the family.
my post wasn't about how mean my wife has treated me. if it was, then yes, you'd have every right to point out that i had sex with other women while married to her.
guess what, though, my post was about a wonderful provider that gave me more than twice the time i paid for, along with honest comfort and real life suggestions to feel better. your comments on my morality of my infidelity may be legitimate (at least in your mind, you have no idea what did or did not happen in my marriage bed...i'll give you a hint, my wife wouldn't do somethings that my provider friends are happy to do).
however they have nothing to do with the discussion or the point i'm making. am i low? to some, esp. you, maybe yes. does my "low-ness" have anything to do with what a wonder thing my provider friend did for me? i don't see how.
but thanks for playing
youre pointing out how escorts dont see customers because of money.
but you saw your ATF and had sex with her cause you paid her. you think she would have had sex with you out of the goodness of her heart without being paid? ok. thanks for playing.
never understand cheaters. always excuses...oh wife is sick so if i break up with her or tell her she might get worse....or i need to save the marriage for the kids....so i must suffer and be pleasured by having a hot woman give me a BJ and actually must even suffer more by cumming in her mouth....or that not enough i must suffer more i need to bang a nice pussy in doggy...oh poor suffering man...boo hoo...
by the way... how mean your wife has been to you? what the hell are you talking about? your a man probably out weigh her and you stay married to her for 30yrs? if you can't even stand up to a woman or someone then you have serious problems beyond being a cheater. but if mean as in she cheated on you then i apologize.
you're judging. you are the classic internet troll, make an incendiary statement, then recoil in mock mortification when someone calls you on it.
and i never said escorts don't see clients for the money. you are misrepresenting what i said to argue your own point. you are using a straw man argument. you are using logical fallacies. you are arguing in bad faith. you are a moron.
judge what? do you even know the definition of a cheater? is there some other meaning? for me to judge there has to be i don't know a different interpretation...is there a good cheater???
you post a retarded comment with some sappy story about how mean your wife was to you and instead of dealing with your wife you write some glorified post of first thing you did to your poor suffering is to go pay and see some escort so she can listen to you whining and suck your dick. and how she did it all in the goodness of her heart after you paid her. first thats what a good escort does..listen and has sex with you after you pay. im sorry maybe you had banged lame escorts who didn't listen.
and your calling me a troll for calling you out when im just responding to your nonsense post. man, typical liars cheaters whatevers...always the excuses and blame others for their wrongs. im done with you. go bang your escorts that don't want money.
i won't bother to point out for a third time that you are setting up a strawman argument by saying i stated providers don't do it for the money. i never said that, anymore than i say doctors don't heal sick people for the money or mechanics don't repair cars for the money.
what i said was that some people go above and beyond the implied contract and give more than was asked for, and i appreciated it.
as someone said in another reply to one of your tirades, i missed the headline where you were canonized. what, did your girl friend cheat on you? seems like my life, which has nothing to do with you, has hit too close to home.
you're an idiot, a sanctimonious self-righteous hypocrite for judging other people's lives while at the same time engaging in an activity that most of the world finds immoral. (just to be clear, because you obvioulsy can't follow locial trains of thought, i don't find what we do in the hobby immoral. what i find immoral is judging what others do in the hobby immoral while engaging in it yourself.
Oh please Father Dance bless me and hear my confession. I have laid with harlots and debauched myself. Many times. I have missed both vespers and Mass in doing this. I know that I am only human and born in sin. I know I can never be as righteous and holy as thou. But please forgive me. I will only have sex with Catholic girls from now on. Or girls that may have heard of Catholics. Now how many Hail Marys must I say?
but you saw your ATF and had sex with her cause you paid her. you think she would have had sex with you out of the goodness of her heart without being paid? ok. thanks for playing.
never understand cheaters. always excuses...oh wife is sick so if i break up with her or tell her she might get worse....or i need to save the marriage for the kids....so i must suffer and be pleasured by having a hot woman give me a BJ and actually must even suffer more by cumming in her mouth....or that not enough i must suffer more i need to bang a nice pussy in doggy...oh poor suffering man...boo hoo...
by the way... how mean your wife has been to you? what the hell are you talking about? your a man probably out weigh her and you stay married to her for 30yrs? if you can't even stand up to a woman or someone then you have serious problems beyond being a cheater. but if mean as in she cheated on you then i apologize.
plus a Tesla S coupe... as i must be enviromentally friendly to the Earth I created.
Thank you Father. I guess you are now saying that priests only do it for the money as well. You won't get any of those things from me. You can go back to buggering little boys now.
I missed the news of your canonization, St. Dance.
my forgiveness...
how "low" she went to cheer you up. Sometimes "lower" is good!
Peter, what a nice story. Thank you for sharing it. While the money does help pay the bills, spending time with nice guys is a bonus.
being a friend and talking over coffee etc even though a customer is one thing. but you honestly can tell me you would have spent hours listening and then kissing and having sex with him for free?
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classic straw man: madison didn't say it wasn't only about the money; you conveniently left out her qualifier "all about" the money, and challenged her to answer a question that was never part of the original statement. nobody said providers would give me time or sex if i didn't pay them; you of course are missing the point of the original post, as i 've stated before.
you obviously have very low opinion of the women who provide, and probably of sex itself.
perspective on relationships. He's relatively young compared to us, and from what he has said about his past relationships, I am willing to bet he has never been married. He has talked about his many "ex's" in terms of Kgirl providers, but has not mentioned any civvie relationships. I often find men that have never been married has an unrealistic view of what marriage is, so I will usually cut them some slack for their lack of experience in the marriage arena, and in this case, in matters relative to your post. If I've got this wrong, Dance, you are welcome to correct me by providing more facts.
i just don't date civies anymore. i like sex and sex with civies is mediocre at best so why date them. when i can bang hot girls who suck me dry as im cumming and make me scream for mercy and tongue violate my ass. civie girls don't seem to like to do that.
i just happen to get into relationships with the provider kgirls better then most. not my intention but it is what it is.
as for unrealistic view of marriage. thats BS. you took a vow to love your wife. and unless i don't know the wife cheated on you first or she gave the OK for you to bang other women. then instead of cheating be a man and break up with the wife. otherwise you are treating someone who you are supposed to love with no respect.
If you have a relationship with a civvie girl, not just a one-night stand, one of the joys in life is to take a blank slate (mediocre, in your words) and teach her to do everything you want just the way you like it. If you have skills of your own, they will return the favor once they learn how to do things. You have seen enough providers to know how they do the things they do, so why not teach a civvie girl how to fuck like a provider and you won't be limited by finances to getting laid twice a month. Just a suggestion.
As far as marriage, you are not old enough to know this yet, but many women start into menopause during their 40's, and a large percentage completely lose interest in sex. Many are raising teens or tweens and just don't have time or interest in having sex with their husbands. So while the husband had certain expectations when he took the "vows" you speak of, it is often the menopausal wife who defaults on her vow to love and honor her husband, by denying him sex. So the husband is left with few options. There is, of course, the nuclear option of divorce, which is scorched-earth-everybody-gets-screwed time, including innocents like the children (and sometimes grandchildren). But just because there is no sex does not mean there is no love, so it seems perfectly reasonable to me that when a wife comes to that point where she is not interested in sex with her husband, then I think a husband is justified in taking care of his sexual needs elsewhere. He can either get emotionally involved in an affair, which can still lead to divorce and all the collateral damage, or he can enjoy a fantasy relationship with one or more providers, which, if he has his head on straight, will be much less likely to impact his marriage and any innocents within range.
Why bother trying to inform the ignorant who are too stupid to know they are ignorant and too frigid in their thinking to even want to learn? It's called trying to teach a pig to sing. It's a waste of your time and it annoys the pig.
I always hold out hope that if presented with facts that disabuse them of their prejudices, they will come to see the light, so I try to be patient with some of the younger inexperienced members here. I both agree and disagree with various posts of his, but I think he just has a very narrow body of experience when it comes to women, but as you point out, doesn't seem open-minded to discover and/or embrace what he DOESN'T know. To put it your way, if we don't get a song or two soon, I will give up.
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We can see that from his posts. I have no doubt that if dancebbq09 got married as soon as his k-woman wife got older and left him to use his hand he would be back to seeing escorts real fast.
My wife has a very good life. Probably far better than she could have gotten had we not met. She does not need a job. Most anything reasonable she wants I provide for her. I have given her a very comfortable easy life that she is very happy with. We get along quite well. So what is the problem? She has no interest in sex and has not for a very long time. Why should I divorce her? Her living standard would go down considerably. Almost all of my assets are well defined separate property. She is even very limited in the amount of alimony she could get due to a prenup. But why should I destroy her life like that when a lack of sex is the only issue in our marriage? I would rather not see providers due to the cost. I actually miss having a close sexual relationship and I wish I could have that again. But the only way I could do that is either divorce her and find someone else or find a very close sugar baby relationship. I have no desire to divorce her. Overall she is a good life partner. But I'm not willing yet to give up my own sexuality. I have had ladies, and even my wife back when she had a sex drive, get very frustrated with me if they were in the mood and I was not. I have little doubt that if the roles were reversed and it was men that lost their sex drive before women, we would see lot of male providers and female hobbyist would be the majority by a wide margin.
That is one of the pluses for men getting married to younger women I guess. Their sexuality would be better lined up. The negative is women tend to live longer than men
although David Carradine was awesome in Kill Bill!
CDL, i like you. Seem like a nice guy and seem somewhat knowlegeable of the kgirl scene but like i said before you need to uplug yourself from it looks like now youre plugged in the cheating world. Because I live in the modern world and not the days of King Solomon where these married geezers think it is there right to have harem and concubines.
Look at the tone of what you wrote and these cheaters. Its all about gratfying and pleasureing yourself. Like your wife and kids should be grateful you have to suffer having your dick sucked and cumming in differnent girls mouths. Like its an entitlement becuase your wife got ugly or to avoid hurting the kids you should suffer sucking on some girls pussy. Oh poor cheating man
... You can spin it all you want its typical BS excuse to blame others by cheaters and cowards who cant face their wife.
You took a vow and married. Who said marriage is easy. Thats why you take vows to commit. But part of marrigae is being trusting and respecting your wife. If you cant do neither becuase your wife gets wrinkles and get ugly then tell her the truth or get divorced. Dont come up with BS excuse your banging and DFK other women to protect the love of your wife.
As far as marriage, you are not old enough to know this yet, but many women start into menopause during their 40's, and a large percentage completely lose interest in sex. Many are raising teens or tweens and just don't have time or interest in having sex with their husbands. So while the husband had certain expectations when he took the "vows" you speak of, it is often the menopausal wife who defaults on her vow to love and honor her husband, by denying him sex. So the husband is left with few options. There is, of course, the nuclear option of divorce, which is scorched-earth-everybody-gets-screwed time, including innocents like the children (and sometimes grandchildren). But just because there is no sex does not mean there is no love, so it seems perfectly reasonable to me that when a wife comes to that point where she is not interested in sex with her husband, then I think a husband is justified in taking care of his sexual needs elsewhere. He can either get emotionally involved in an affair, which can still lead to divorce and all the collateral damage, or he can enjoy a fantasy relationship with one or more providers, which, if he has his head on straight, will be much less likely to impact his marriage and any innocents within range.
I like you, too. I think you have a wealth of knowledge to share about the Kgirl scene from your own perspective as a Korean hobbyist. However, for the same reason you say a Caucasian man is not going to understand the Kgirl mind like you do, I think you should concede that an never-married man like you is not going to understand what its like to be married like those of us that have been. Rather than argue with everyone about whether it is cheating or not, just accept that you have no frame of reference on this subject. Sometimes, when it comes to new things, its better to watch and learn, as I have paid attention to some of the things you have said about dating Kgirls on the outside.
I thought like him a long time ago. There is the fantasy. That is where his head is now. Then there is reality. That is where his head will be eventually. You are totally correct Coeur.
You are missing the point. First off I don't have sex with all my male friends. A couple guys I have gone out to lunch or dinner with off the clock. I hope to go for a hike with one special friend this summer.
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listen you seem like a good escort. so a good one is someone also listens to your client and then bang them after you pay. or just listen after being paid. or im sure theres crappy ones who don't listen and just bang them. but either way money is paid. or did you become an escort who don't want to get paid? if thats the case can i get your number
he managed to hijack my thread about women with compassion into a self-righteous bull shit session about the religious right's idea of what men and women should be.
plus he's pretty much insulting all you women who provide, insinuating you only do this for money.
I think honesty is needed.
No. I personally wouldn't have. But that is in part because I don't sell sex. Nor do I sell a fantasy of the girl friend experience. I am a hired companion who is incredibly selective of the men I choose to see.
The men I choose to see, I do so initially because they have intrigued me enough for me to believe that there can and will be enough commonality for a base of a friendship that goes deeper than a simple romp in the hay. That in time as that friendship builds we would share a genuine interest and compassion for each other's well being be it celebratory or sorrow.
As I have compassion for them, they also have compassion for me, and understand that by leaving me a financial token, they too are helping me realize my own goals and dreams, leading to my own joy, just as I am or would do by being there for them when they needed a non-judge mental and empathetic place to talk, hopefully also helping them reach a place of joy.
All friendships are based in the end on selfish needs or wants and how they make us feel.
A little more honesty, I'd say by the fact that you felt a need to rub salt into this mans wounds at a time when he is obviously hurting and found some respite in this woman's actions, that you lack an empathetic nature and class which may be the very reason that your experiences with companions lack true human connection and intimacy and why yes, you would have to pay a woman for all the time you spend with her.
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But like others have said, you were cheating on your wife. Surprised she didn't leave you back in 2007, when I think she may have found out the first time. And my guess is that she did find out, then in 2011 you went back to your playing ways and she finally said "Fuck it, and you". And now you have your Jesus moment and say how wonderful all the ladies are and it's not "always" about the money...Oh please stop it. Yes there are a few ladies that can lend a shoulder to cry on but try that shit every week and see how that plays out... good luck with that. Hate to come off hard but man, my guess is that this became a you problems years ago.
Examples
1.) had a client get WASTED during a date - had to spend TWO HOURS babysitting him over the toilet barfing. Was I compensated? No. Did I mind? No.
2.) client came over and his battery died in vehicle - took AAA over an hour to get here and get it jumped. Was I compensated for that time? No. Did I mind? No.
Ladies do this all the time - why is it coming off as such an anomaly? It's really not uncommon. If it were there would be a lot more unicorns in the world.
I find it very rude to let the whole world (TER LA BOARD) that a Lady spent more time with you then you booked!
I'm very fortunate through this road I have found LADIES that enjoy my company. A gentleman never "BRAGS" about how much extra time was given. Yes Goldie it is an anomaly in the eyes of some.
b.
And some dudes just need attention more than others. I find if you post all the time you are lacking something in your life.....Like I used to do when I first started.
1.) had a client get WASTED during a date - had to spend TWO HOURS babysitting him over the toilet barfing. Was I compensated? No. Did I mind? No.
2.) client came over and his battery died in vehicle - took AAA over an hour to get here and get it jumped. Was I compensated for that time? No. Did I mind? No.
Ladies do this all the time - why is it coming off as such an anomaly? It's really not uncommon. If it were there would be a lot more unicorns in the world.
Goldie, you're awesome... both situations are above and beyond the call of duty and goes to show that at the end of the day, we are just people being there for other people... it's not always just a transaction (unlike so much else in business and the world). Thank you (and BPJ) for showing me the "human side" of this hobby. I can't wait to find special friends like you.
(patented Jinx sarcasm light -on). So this wonderful lady makes your day brighter for half her going rate and you don't tip her? Cheap bastard! You don't tell us who this wonderful Clara Barton is so the rest of us sad sacks can't grace her door step with our own tales of woe and thereby increase her business? Selfish chump!!! (sarcasm light -off)
To put it simply " No such things as a free lunch" / Catch 22.
tailgate you in post cat LOL!!
WEll the lady in question was generous with her time .. if u go on therapie They will charge u extra hour
And do not give shit about you ... and not if you do not feel good They will get ride of YOU go home with your drama
And give you prozac prescription !! LOL
but anyway ...obvious she wonT see him for free
what fuck!! We are not stupid to be dating married guys... rigth!!!??
but we do like and have compassion for people
NOTHING IN LIFE IS FOR FREE
once I was dating someone and a civil girl my co worker
SAId
Wow!! Does he has nice job!???
What kind car he drives!!??
Does his family has money?
Do not have sex with him until he pays "you a good trip and nice dinners LOL
I roll my eyes and ask myself who the hooker here LOL!!
and I bet if you guys run of money lose your job and be complete broke
MOST wifes won be with you
So if u want unconditional love
Get a pet
BUT U better pay him some food
Or he won like u much
END OF BS !!
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i just got my second dog. lots of unconditional love!
"Second dog", are you referring to a real 4-legged dog, or an ugly woman? You can get unconditional love from both, so I think clarification is in order.
feel like you owe me money for reading this
As well as a bathroom break and a run to the concession stand. lol
Ohhh cat..
>> I TAUGTH you are paying me some din din.. dong dinners LOL
Ops
Trim..... trim ....Wife is calling...
I thought she'd filed them over a month ago!! Why do some people take forever to make up their mind?
I'm not handsome or great or funny, though, so the only provider who helps me through life's atrocities doesn't waste a lot of yap and time on compliments, but I don't mind 'cause she can talk between kisses and listen while stroking cock.
But probably the greatest thing she ever said to me was, "God, I'm glad it's you tonight!"
These ladies really know how to make a guy feel like a king! But they dole that side of the service out only sporadically and in bite-size portions
I don't know exactly what kind of kinky behaviors Mr. BPJ enjoys. But blaming his wife for not willing to please him on bed like all his ATF providers, is just out of my mind.
It's a business. They gave you extra hours to make you feel so good, and they expect you to return to bring more money. That's what a good provider usually do. It happens all the time in all kinds of business. It doesn't means they love you, or really enjoy your kinks. They are so good that make you feel they like you, but at the end, it's just a business. The main purpose of what they are doing is just for more business, more money in the future