Overnight is so intimate would not sleep with stranger!!!
I did overnight couple times with same client .."friend " great guy
And was good... but took me while to get sleep..lol
That it
Would never do overnight at first time encounter
CC
Looking at being in LA the first week of June, so I am also looking for potential meeting partners
I have done everything from quick visits to 12+ hour overnight/breakfast with a variety of providers over 20+ years of hobbying. The overnight visits have been both with providers I have seen before on a shorter excursion and others that is the first time. For the most part I have had very good luck - the only negative was a second overnight with a provider that I had a previous overnight with. What are providers views of overnight encounters?
Looking at being in LA the first week of June, so I am also looking for potential meeting partners
So far I have only done overnights with one provider that is also a very good friend. The most she has ever asked for is her single hour rate. However, I'm not expecting her to pamper me all night either. We are going out and having a good time doing things that we both want to do which also includes a stay at a four star hotel. We both enjoy each other's company so if we take a trip together she looks at it as an all expense paid vacation rather than work. If she wants to do something on the trip I'm not interested in, like a surfing lesson, I book and pay for a surfing lesson for her and I do something else while she does the lesson.
She has an overnight rate for clients which cost quite a bit but includes a whole evening/morning of being pampered. Of course I don't expect that. If anything I pamper her. I would consider taking other favorites of mine on short trips but discussing the financial aspect is awkward. I would be offering to take them on a trip as a friend, not for them to bust their ass papering me all evening and morning.
I have taken a couple of other favorites out for a "night on the town" to places they had been wanting to go with me covering all expenses. Of course, we do include a regular session later that night, I just didn't stay the night. In those cases I offered to take them because they had mentioned it was something they always wanted to do and I was able to facilitate it. I looked at the activity as more of a thank you gift to them for always being dependable and fair.
I would never consider an overnight or taking a trip with a provider I didn't know well. I need to feel we enjoy each others company and both just want to go have a good time. I also would never even consider paying thousands for an over night or to take someone to take an all expenses vacation with me. I have traveled a lot by myself over the years and have no problem with it. It would be far lower cost for me to go on my trip by myself and book with local providers where ever I'm going. But it is really nice to take a trip with a good friend in somewhat of a "friends with benefits" type situation and give her enough reasonable financial help to cover her bills over that time. If it is a trip she wants to make anyhow, it is a win win for her also because all of her travel expenses are covered.
The way I see it, there is a big difference between an overnight session where the guy is paying big money to be pampered all night vs. an overnight where the provider is getting to see a live show or concert she wanted to go to anyhow, get a great dinner, and a stay at a 4 star minimum hotel with a one hour session tossed in. But obviously the two people need to be comfortable with each other and enjoy each other's company.
I am also interested on thoughts on this.
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mirror my own on just about every aspect. I think the key, as you point out, is to really know a provider well, so that you can have a frank discussion about what her expectations are as far as whether, or how much of, her TIME will be compensated, and at what rate. I have had a few providers that I was a regular with agree to take vacations with me to Hawaii or the Caribbean, where I paid for all expenses and activities, we still had sex every day, but there was no donation involved. Likewise, I have been invited to Korea a few times by girls that I had met here as a customer. If I pay for everything we do; great meals, fun activities, etc., there has never been a request for a donation, only an expectation on her part that I will still be a good customer when she returns to the US the next time to work. I always view these trips as a "thank you" by the girl for my past and future patronage, loyalty and generosity when they are here working because she is not asking for anything for her time during these "vacations."
As far as just one overnight, I often stay overnight in downtown LA when I have an early business meeting the next day. I have a few girls in Ktown that are willing to join me overnight for the rate they normally charge for a two hour session. We go out to dinner, usually a steak at the Palm, enjoy the evening in the room, and have a room service breakfast together in the morning. After breakfast, she calls a Korean taxi for the ten-minute ride back to her apartment, and I go on to my meeting.
These kinds of relationships are transitional, usually starting out strictly as customer/provider. If you become a regular and start seeing a girl once or twice a week, it is natural for it to evolve into a quasi "friends with benefits", arrangement, as you point out, over time where sometimes there is a donation involved and other times there isn't. When there is no donation, I call that "time off the clock", or OTC, but it doesn't necessarily mean the next time you see her, you will not have to make a donation. It's strictly discretionary at the will of the girl based on how much she likes you and/or wants to show her appreciation for your business.
Frankly, I would not be interested in paying the regular hourly rate just to have a woman sleeping next to me overnight, which appears to be how many providers price out their overnight rates. Many times, I find my overnight invitation is welcomed by the girl if she has known me for awhile because it is more convenient for her than getting up at 1:00 in the morning, trying to get a taxi and go home at that hour.
Thanks for your thoughts on this. I guess that "frank discussion" is a one area where I get hung up. I don't want to seem cheap, but I also want it fair, so for me it is a bit of an awkward topic. With her the "frank discussion" was easy because she initiated it telling me not to give her so much, believe it or not. I'm rather low maintenance. I don't expect the lady I have done over nights with so spend an hour on makeup or two hours on her hair like she would need to in a regular session. She just puts her hair in bun and we're out the door. Funny you mentioned Hawaii, because I have such a trip planned there later this year exactly like that. But if she had an unexpected financial set back before the trip that was impacting her ability to go I would help her with that regardless of any previous discussion. She has more than proven herself to be honest and fair in that regard, so I would trust her word on that.
To be loyal and generous over time, most girls will reciprocate once they see you are gentlemanly and respectful. I also agree that they are appreciative of not having to get all dolled up for an overnight. I just tell them to bring lipstick in case we decide to go out rather than get room service and they will be fine.
Maybe I will see how my finances go over the next two or three months and consider just doing the regular overnight rate one time only with the other I'm interested in doing this with. It would sure bite the first time but be worth it long term if she was more flexible going forward. It might also be a reasonable starting point for that "frank discussion"
Because we'll be having too much fun! I have done many overnighters with wonderful gentlemen who I have known for a very long time. There have been rare occasions where I meet someone and our first date is overnight. Both situations have been very comfortable and easy going. It sets the tone for us to really relax and get to know each other.
Sounds like a fun thing for a weekend. So far, my overnights have been in connection with being in a hotel with respect business, so staying up all night would be impossible, but you got me thinking . . .
Aww thank you! We've had some amazing multi-hours sessions.
I have not forgotten to get back to you either after our last chat. But you've been doing some serious touring lately. One time I was going to PM you but noticed you were up around Seattle and the next time Las Vegas.
Definitely one of these days though.
I'm sure work and sleep will be the last thing on your mind. You may regret having to go to work the next day, lol.
I adore overnights! Not only do I get the opportunity to better know my lovers and be more intimate through cuddling and snuggling; we get to play both in the evening and the morning! I hold longer dates like this in very high regard, especially when my playmate gets a chance to let his guard down and get over nerves/open up more about his life, desires, hobbies, etc.! In turn, I don't feel rushed to fit every fun, sexy activity into a short period of time and can take my time showering someone with affection, building up a really tremendous release, or better accommodating someone with Superman stamina, hehe!
Overnight is so intimate would not sleep with stranger!!!
I did overnight couple times with same client .."friend " great guy
And was good... but took me while to get sleep..lol
That it
Would never do overnight at first time encounter
CC
Looking at being in LA the first week of June, so I am also looking for potential meeting partners
reasonable policy. You are right about the level of intimacy, so you have to be REALLY comfortable with the guy, and the guy with you. Everything is on the table: Snoring, farting, what you look like in the morning, bad breath, everything, so you have to be super comfortable in the company of the other person. For instance, I had started to sleep one time, and the woman that was with me tapped me and said my name a few times. I thought she might be pushing me to try for round 3, so I pretended to be asleep because I was exhausted. When I didn't respond, she farted, then rolled towards me. I opened one eye and said, "I heard that." She got bright red but we both laughed about it for days. If you don't think you can handle spontaneous things like that that come with an overnight, then it may not be a good option for some.
LOL
I am laughing My cute ass off ...almost in tears LOL thank u
That is bad manners she could go on bathroom . Lol
I taugh she tapping because u were snoring..
yeah IAM not a kind of person who wants or LIKE to share TOO Much intimacy
Everyone is diferent
Rigth!??
CC
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She would ALWAYS have gone to the bathroom, but she was warm and cozy, thought I was sound asleep, so she tried to get away with one. If I was asleep, no harm, no foul.
Lol
LUv their cute pijamas style
Those guys are husband material !!lol
Whoo hoo! Right on, CdC.
I just love overnighters!
They are more like real dates - a chance to connect as holistic human beings - and a chance for me to really craft an experience! I have an extensive phone conversation with you prior to the date in order to feel out what you like and what would really make for an unforgettable night just for YOU.
That type of thing just isn't physically possible with the one hour date!
Like Shakespeare said,
"Love is begun by time...
And time qualifies the spark and fire of it."
- Hamlet
I believe, at my prices, that our overnight should be a real experience for you; not just a room that I show up to, without any forethought or planning or special creativity.
Please check out my website and - have fun on your overnight!!!
I prefer to get to know someone first as its not about the $$$ to me its about enjoying the time we spend together so its very important that we get on magically.
I always suggest perhaps booking an hour and then I'm quite happy to extend our time together