That is sure the long way around the barn to say regular society women don't like escorts.  As to whether or not they'd like to be one, even for one day, in my view probably not likely.   Curiosity is probably as far as it goes.  They have the ring and resent the fact that you're  after their husbands money far too much.

I think that most civvie women either look down at providers in general and the more militant feminists berate them as being women who kowtow to the patriarchal suppressors and thus hold back female empowerment & advancement. I think that it's a very complex issue, especially among women not in the industry. As a woman who enjoys providers and other women in the sex trade, I would never in a million years discuss or disclose my "hobby" to the women that I know. I would be denounced much more harshly than any man would be - I am considered a traitor to my fellow women because I am contributing to the continued oppression of sex workers by employing them. I got into a heated discussion a few years back with a female coworker about this and have since learned to keep my mouth shut, even when some of my female friends are dissing dancers and providers. You also have to remember that we women are socialized to be ashamed, embarrassed and extremely modest about sex. Thankfully alot of that backwards thinking is disappearing, and each new generation of women is gleefully embracing their sexuality (whatever it may be) and running with it. Hopefully in the near future civvie women might begin to feel differently about the sex industry....but for now it's the same old stereotypes and ignorance that keeps the status quo....at least in their eyes .

I would guess it's a surprisingly common fantasy...

...that women from many backgrounds and socioeconomic statuses fantasize about.

I've always wondered, when I am older will I experience jealousy of younger women, or if I will feel content with the physical youth I experienced?  

I have had so many interesting experiences with non-escort women, even dating back to way before my escort days.  When I was about 17, I started to notice some middle-aged and older women give me what I interpreted as "dirty looks," and even talking down to me.  I always assumed it was either because A) they were simply annoyed with young people, or B) they were actually jealous of the youthful, content, and confident energy I possess.  I recall even thinking that perhaps some of these women had husbands/boyfriends who had cheated on them, which may have manifested a resentment toward all other women perceived as potential threats.  

Building on the notion that many women feel threatened by other women, it makes sense that many non-escorts collectively see escorts as an  extreme version of that threat... i.e., the shameful, disgusting women actively "trying to steal" married men.  

Of course, there is the proportion of women who don't experience resentment toward others.  I think it's within this proportion that a much smaller % (yet still surprisingy high %) of women fantasize about being a Courtesan.  (btw--Julienne, I love your consistent capitalization of the word Courtesan)

It's just so interesting that no matter what the popular opinion of Courtesans, some women will hate us while others will fear us, and others will envy us.  Some women probably even experience a frustrating combination of the three!  In my case, before I decided to become a Courtesan, I was simply intrigued & amazed by my fantasy of it.  

Maybe I'm over-thinking it.  I don't know.... just a thought.

xo, Mia

of a civvie woman (corporate executive type) who wanted to be a Courtesan for a day.  We got as far as me suggesting 69, and her responding, "I'm a Republican.  I don't do that sort of thing."

I have been "judged" often in my life especially by supposedly "Christian" people! Cannot believe that  a person could MURDER somebody and just say "sorry" but I Now accept Jesus as my personal savior and TA DA! they get into heaven...but God forbid you are a whore and do not "repent" or refuse to believe in their male only trinity.. and strait to hell with you. .doesn't  matter if you are a really good person who does her best to show love and kindness to everyone she meets...makes me sooo angry! when I Was first putting up my donation site I had a couple pics on my Facebook that were kind of sexy.. bathingsuit etc.(nothing explicit)a bunch of "strait" people that know me and love me couldn't text/email me fast enough telling me "OMG, Take those photos down!" Mostly Christian people donate to those sites and they didnt want me to be judged "poorly WTF? So if I enjoy sex as a women I am not worthy of getting help unless I conform to their belief system and deny who I am?!! I am NOT ashamed of me, I am the KINDEST person I know... I am so sick and tired of this BULLSHIT! ALL of the websites that are devoted to helping sick or disabled people are faith -based and expect you to be a member of a church etc. I refuse to 'perform" for them or act like something IM NOT! You are so right about most strait women having a secret fantasy about being a provider.. my own mother even said that she wished she were brave enough to do it when she was younger...! SO.. Keep on keeping on girls, WE know who we are and I love every "whore" on here!


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