Donation would vary on the person's areas of play. I used to fly out to NY on the red eye just to bless 1 lucky slave with my superior top shelf treats for 12hs. I enjoy longer multiple hour playdates vs the traditional 1hr appointment.
For the lack of a better term, I am a “24/7 Mistress” in my personal life but chose to work as an escort rather than a pro Domme because the theatrics of dungeon scenes are just not for me (not that there’s anything wrong with them).
I recently got an idea to offer extended “sessions” at my place lasting 12-24 hours or longer, basically giving men a chance to experience what it is like to be a personal slave in a realistic environment. I know I can't be the first one to think about it. Are there other ladies who do this? Any gentlemen who have or would like to experience something like that?
I don’t mean to make it sound like an ad... just want to see what you guys think about it. It wouldn’t be as fast paced as a regular BDSM session but also not nearly as expensive as a regular hourly rate times 12 or more.
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Alexandra:
Not that my opinion really matters but as a "Lifestyle Dom" who owns an Agency I'm not sure how I feel about that.
I was mentored in New England house in 80's and I consider myself part of the New Guard generation. At least where I grew up there was a respectful separation between Pro and Lifestyle. Admittedly the world has changed, few things are a sacred.
In regard to your idea I'm not so sure the format you propose will be overly successful. Granted, an idea is an idea and America is founded on out of the box thinking so on that premise alone, hey give it a shot.
However, here is where I suspect you may have some challenges.
1) What target audience pool are you going to draw from?
As you know or should, escort guys and BDSM guys as a market are not the same. Yes, there is very limited cross over but they tend to have different psych and focus profiles. An analogous example would be mixing your Swinger friends with your BDSM friends, it tends not to go well.
2) Lifestyle guys may have the attention span to do 12 to 24 hours of service oriented submission or your variation of it. However the escort market is "get off " centered and may not have the long term focus. What would be your plan to address that nuance ?
3) Not having enough information as to that you plan to have them to do, but I suspect your pricing is too low for the amount of time and effort this would require. It comes down to perceived value of time. There are some circumstances when too cheap a price diminishes the value of your effort. We see this in many markets with the behavioral expectations between the $100 an hour client and the 400 dollar and hour client.
4) What kind of environment is this going to take place? Keep in mind clients are going to bring their own fantasy's to this and the common visual is of some estate like playing ground.
Just off the top of my head these insights are what comes to mind. A good idea is one that considers possible hurdles and has elements built in to over come them.
Respectfully,
Lee Dreams
"Sine amore, nihil est vita"
Donation would vary on the person's areas of play. I used to fly out to NY on the red eye just to bless 1 lucky slave with my superior top shelf treats for 12hs. I enjoy longer multiple hour playdates vs the traditional 1hr appointment.
it sounds like an interesting idea ...however I do have several questions that I could PM you about or even call which ever you prefer