I am not the most active hobbyist, but I have been in and out of the hobby for about 15 years and I am a long-standing member here. I have written a good number of reviews. One way I keep from spending too, too much on the hobby, despite my sexless marriage, is by seeking civie (non-provider) lovers from time to time.
I realize it's off-topic, but... I recently moved to Los Angeles from the East Coast. I have been visiting here for years, and hobbying here. LA providers rock! I have never learned, however, where to go to meet mature women who are looking for some NSA fun. I know about the online opportunities (Ashley Madison, OK stupid, etc), but wonder if there are bars or other places in LA, especially in the SFV/Pasadena/Glendale areas, where discreet adults mingle. Any suggestions?hearing how you have dealt with the civvie women who are unhappy in their marriage, or single, and are looking to "trade-up" and all of the drama that goes with that motivation. To me, its well-worth the price of admission to see providers and avoid any drama or relationship complications. You seem to know how to make it work and maybe some others here could use a few pointers.
"trade up"? I haven't really experienced that. Maybe I don't understand what you mean.
The married women I have met are mostly just looking for sex because their husbands don't provide that for them. I would say the most drama I have encountered came from a woman who wanted romance more than she wanted sex, so our motivations weren't aligned.
When I have really struck it lucky is when I've met someone who was as horny as I was, and was just thrilled to meet a man who wanted to give them oral sex and spend time naked with them, making them feel wanted and sexy.
In the end, it's hard to make those relationships last and I always end up back here and browsing various escort malls. But fun with civies is a good alternative when luck is on my side.
In any case, I'd still appreciate any suggestions for good places to go and mingle.
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Thanks, but unfortunately I am not currently a VIP member so I cannot read a PM. Is it possible to reply here?
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