If I give a gift at all it's usually a gift card...sounds impersonal, I know, but I'd rather let them get something they would really like, plus it's discreet and easy to hide, easy to use.
Ladies, what are some good gifts that you have appreciated in the past? What are gifts you didn't like?
Guys, what gifts did you give that went over real well with the provider?
My ATF loves scented candles so I bring one on almost every visit. Smartest thing I've done in a while was show up with a mistletoe scented candle a few weeks ago....she knew exactly what to do "under the mistletoe...
I've brought books, cd's, chocolates, believe it or not, pizza, Cheetohs, Reese's peanut butter cups and hot chocolate.
It's more fun giving gifts with a regular lady as you get to know what she likes. One thing I've heard a few ladies mention is not to bring flowers as they tend to draw attention to you as you come through the hotel lobby and attention to them as they are checking out.
"I saw a new hobbyist and all I got was this lousy t-shirt" shirt.
Like was mentioned before, check and see if they have a list of preferred gifts on their website. Once I've established a relationship with a woman I'll just ask her if there is anything I can bring. My ATF has her favorite cosmetics and perfume. When she is running out, I stock her up with a new supply. I would only know this if I asked.
She doesn't have a gift wish list....I guess it would make it seem too greedy. I don't really make a habit of giving gifts, but in this case I think I really want to.
As a provider, I like cash the best.
#2 trinkets from around the world
#3 a good sample of 420, or port wine
#4 plants are better than flowers
#5 jewelry
#6 it's fun to wear a sexy gift: lingerie
#7 anything thoughtful is always a delight
oh, cds are great, candy, fresh fruit. Computer stuff is a good gift. But one can never, ever go wrong with cashmere. Anything soft, fuzzy and floor-lenth will dazzle any girl.
The number one absolute primiere gift is...
(Drumroll please)of course, what else other than ... DIAMONDS!!!
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- a Starbucks gift card.
- Godiva chocolate truffles.
- Lingerie from Victoria's Secret.
- "Intermission Wear" - something presentable for her to wear when we stepped outside for a smoke, she shared the incall location with a non-smoker.
- a nice bottle of wine, but you will want to ask if she drinks, and has a preference.
- an Al Green CD.
- a beach towel, but that is a different story!
These have mostly been based on the ladies wish list, or prior experience. All were well received, never more than $20-50, and all made a nice ice breaker.
If I give a gift at all it's usually a gift card...sounds impersonal, I know, but I'd rather let them get something they would really like, plus it's discreet and easy to hide, easy to use.
I have brought flowers, candles, chocolates, wine, etc. Check the lady's web site or sometimes you can just ask her what she likes.
Don't take flowers to a hotel incall because it would be challenging for her to leave with them.
I am new to this forum and to TER at all. Honestly I find it pritty interesting 
A good gift for me for a person who you dont know very well is always been something funny. Something that will bring a smile of a lady's face. THere are so many companies now (online) for customizing gifts. Even if its a mouse pad with her picture. Try to be original. And good luck!
I've heard candles make good gifts. I usually bring wine or candles.
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