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Re: I have... a lot to work with, lol, but if someone is willing to be gently guided...regular_smile
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SearchingForTruth1314 reads

Which providers truly enjoy DATY as opposed to doing it just because their clients asked?

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They all do if you know what you are doing.  I had a provider that is one of my regulars for a few years tell me this weekend that she can understand a 22-year old not knowing how to please a woman with DATY, but she is always amazed at the number of over-40 guys that don't know what to do to get her off with DATY.  She said it always makes her laugh (silently, of course) when a customer comes in and says he is there because his wife doesn't want to have sex with him anymore.  Then the guy goes down on her and she understands WHY his wife doesn't want him down there.  LOL

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Are providers willing to teach how to please them?

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YES.  If you need some instruction but they find what you are doing wrong still tolerable, they will not bring it up because they don't want to hurt your feelings or cause you to not want to repeat if YOU thought you were having a good time otherwise.  

If you take the initiative when you position your self for DATY, and tell them you want to do whatever they like the best, so would they tell you how they like it, you are not going to have too many that will fail to give you some guidance.  It also reflects a better image of you as a compassionate, caring partner, and the girls will usually respond in kind.  Each girl may have certain things she likes better than others, but you will also learn some universal techniques that work on all women.

Yes -- I believe there would be a number of providers willing to provide some gentle insight/instruction on how to please a woman sexually...whether it be DATY or otherwise. I would imagine that for most, sexual skill does not come naturally. It is something to be learned via instruction and/or experience.

Tabie/Tabatha  
practically a requirement

As long as the guy is responsive to my feedback, I'm always down for that. It's only when it's too rough I'm not into it, but I communicate about being a sensitive girl, and that usually does the trick.
Personally I love it, who wouldn't?!

I'm pretty darn flexible, but I still can't reach DAMIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. :(

My absolute FAV thing!!.

Xo

 

 

Posted By: SearchingForTruth
Which providers truly enjoy DATY as opposed to doing it just because their clients asked?

-- Modified on 10/26/2015 6:30:47 AM

the HELL YES I enjoy DATY! :D Especially the combination of DATY and fingers. I just wish it were more commonplace for clients to ask how a provider likes it- for me anything too direct is too much. However, a little guidance, some finesse, playing with the lips and not being afraid to suck on a clit rather than directly tongue it and I will literally melt. Hehehe.

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Posted By: HarloweDahl
the HELL YES I enjoy DATY! :D Especially the combination of DATY and fingers. I just wish it were more commonplace for clients to ask how a provider likes it- for me anything too direct is too much. However, a little guidance, some finesse, playing with the lips and not being afraid to suck on a clit rather than directly tongue it and I will literally melt. Hehehe.
Taking notes, Sweetheart... taking notes... anything that makes you melt! :)

Posted By: HarloweDahl
the HELL YES I enjoy DATY! :D Especially the combination of DATY and fingers. I just wish it were more commonplace for clients to ask how a provider likes it- for me anything too direct is too much. However, a little guidance, some finesse, playing with the lips and not being afraid to suck on a clit rather than directly tongue it and I will literally melt. Hehehe.
Yup, exactly what you said, guys shouldn't be so caught up in their routine not to pay attention, or afraid to take direction.  Truthfully, there's nothing I love more than giving oral.  Yes, I guess you could describe it as a fixation, or obsession.   A lot of guys will go around saying that they're 'the best' at giving oral.  Well, I think they're fools.  Every woman is different - the tongue flick/finger combo that had partner #1 calling for Jesus may bring a yawn from partner #2.  I love trying to find out what brings each new partner to heights of pleasure.  A woman's orgasm is a beautiful thing to behold, and that exploration is so much a part of what I crave

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I totally agree.  A session is not complete unless I can DATY and finding out what the lady likes I can usually get her to an O.

It's wonderful that your consideration encourages a longer time together. Taking time to build a connection as well as explore each others desires make time with you all the sweeter. Your gentle instruction and receptiveness adds to the heat and passion of our time together. It's always better when there is mutual enjoyment.

I get a little miffed when the sex is absent of some oral pleasure for myself  

Posted By: SearchingForTruth
Which providers truly enjoy DATY as opposed to doing it just because their clients asked?

-- Modified on 10/26/2015 6:30:47 AM

It is rare, but there are those providers who don't like it.  I also dated a lady once who did not seem to like DATY.  Or actually maybe it was more that she got embarrassed by what would happen during DATY......she would basically have pussy farts.  I kid you not!  She was kind of lose down there to start with when (had popped out multiple kids over the years).  She was so lose that when we moved one way, air would actually get up in her V area and then when we would move another way the air would come back out sounding like a pussy fart.  It was the strangest thing and I have never seen anything like that before or after.  

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Because I was dating her so it was free except for date cost.  But yeah, I didn't date her for very long  :-

If a gentleman is willing to listen to how I like it then I amam more than willing to cum my brains out

I think all the gentlemen on this thread are all ears about now.  LOL

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