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Re: I adore arrangements.
tony14a 5 Reviews 311 reads
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Well then, that's interesting...maybe we should talk ;)

I'm just wondering because I've had a couple good shorter term arrangements outside the hobby. I've noticed recently more girls from the hobby interested in it as well. Thought I'd see, how many girls on here are into those types of arrangements?

on the typical sites (match, okcupid, tinder, etc)

it certainly the consensus that we escorts are only that.  for me, i would still like to have a personal life, so yes, i have a profile on other sites.  i am not there to look for clients, as i am not here to find my ONE.  just because we are escorts, we are still ladies, first.

I agree with that "ladies first" bit. Men needs to treat their ladies as such. With respect and with class. Maybe with a naughty streak to make sure you're on the same page. ;)

Arrangements make me actually feel like I'm wanted and I love the cuddling, kissing and intimacy that goes a long with it. When I use to leave "sessions", I would feel good in one way but sad and unfulfilled in another. I had a couple girls that would get upset for "wasting their time" when I was trying to be flirtatious after we had been together 10+ times. It just made me feel used. This was the reason I started looking elsewhere, because I just didn't want it to feel like a business deal was going down. I wanted to feel loved and wanted to feel like the person I was with wanted to be with me....bottom line.

Don't get me wrong, I had an amazing time with the girls I've met as escorts. But, my two arrangement have felt like I've had a friend with benefits that were beneficial for both...and one of them I've remained friends with to this day (over a year later)

maybe it is age, maybe not, but there is a sense of security in a sd/sb relationship that i would love.  i love what i do now, but as i get older, the uncertainty of the cash flo has definitely made me crazy sometimes (and my landlord too).  lol  also, just knowing someone, makes it better everytime i am with them.  i find myself wanting to enjoy the company of a dinner sometimes, as opposed to an in and out, situation.

I am open to those kinds of arrangements.

Li

"polyamorous" has been my natural relationship orientation since long before I even knew the word (or was old enough to have relationships!), and so I've built my companionship life around pursuing/enjoying these more these meaningful, more connected relationships. I'm not so sure I would describe this as being a sugar baby; I'm just being me. :-)

Posted By: tony14a
I'm just wondering because I've had a couple good shorter term arrangements outside the hobby. I've noticed recently more girls from the hobby interested in it as well. Thought I'd see, how many girls on here are into those types of arrangements?

I have just started to venture on a sugar baby website. My thought is sometimes being on the clock with a lady is not always  good. It does seem that "civilian" ladies today are more open with an arrangement like this than ever before.

Many years ago I did have an 2 year arrangement and it was wonderful. I have never found anything like that since.  

But I do agree with DeLaine - I think the hourly rate for a sugar baby would be much less than an escort.

The setup time for a sugar baby is much longer. After many emails - have not found the one to meet. And no idea on a sugar baby performance level. At least an escort, the performance level should be as stated in reviews or the menu she offers before we meet.

Still hunting....

Posted By: ENERGIZER
I have just started to venture on a sugar baby website. My thought is sometimes being on the clock with a lady is not always  good. It does seem that "civilian" ladies today are more open with an arrangement like this than ever before. ....
 

IMO it doesn't matter whether you're with a sugar baby or an escort. You're always on the clock. No matter how you look at it, you're still paying for companionship. The main difference is only that with escorts you're looking at an hourly rate, and with sugar babies you're looking at a monthly rate for x nights per week (or whatever).  
I guess it may "feel" different for some guys but I personally think it's just a game of semantics. We're all doing the same thing at the end of the day.

I've been in and out of sugar baby arrangements.
I usually meet for dinner then if there is chemistry we proceed.
I'd say the dollar outlay is about the same but sugar babies tend to want to hang out, snuggle,  
and talk.  In my experience they usually have jobs and are just out for some extra money and fun.
I have enjoyed it immensely and to me, for better or worse, it feels more like a date.
I have had 2 or three who wanted "more" however

....my last one has actually been the longest of all of them all- 2 years, and it has just now ended 3 months ago as planned.  I think there are a lot of women that enjoy arrangements - as there are men.  It really just depends upon the chemistry between you and the sugar baby.  Basically, if there is something that ¨clicks¨ between you and a provider, itś worth the talk to see if there is an opportunity for two people to make each other that much happier. xoxoxoxo

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Posted By: tony14a
I'm just wondering because I've had a couple good shorter term arrangements outside the hobby. I've noticed recently more girls from the hobby interested in it as well. Thought I'd see, how many girls on here are into those types of arrangements?

I have received a total of 2 different types of invitations to spend time getting to know me and begin an arrangement.  Both spoke with me via Ḧangouts on gmail.  Very specific ideas, one from a woman and the other a male.  I am not particularly interested in any type of longer termed arrangement. I can honestly say, I put a lot of time last week into discussing these two separate requests. And although I am a huge people person, I can say that I am not ready to be part of any couples Polyamorous Triad. Just thought posting it would make things clear. In case anyone else happens to get the idea by stumbling on the previous posts. But I am very flattered, and thank you.
lol
....I mean I just got back, I want to have fun. Right?
 

Posted By: tony14a
I'm just wondering because I've had a couple good shorter term arrangements outside the hobby. I've noticed recently more girls from the hobby interested in it as well. Thought I'd see, how many girls on here are into those types of arrangements?

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