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Squirms or squirts? Both can happen... and often do! eom
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beamer12761 reads

I've read reviews of escorts and here in the discussions. Why do you people think it's real when the woman 'squirms'? She faking it. Plain and simple. You can't think they actually get off from us, do you? Yes, sometimes they might enjoy it to some extent, but for the most part, they're performing a job, and that is to excite their client. Give me a break guys...it's all show.

Sorry but that is just simply not the case. Yes not all O's are real but the majority of the providers I have been with have had real orgasms. In fact, my current ATF is good for at least three or four during each session.
You can believe what you want to believe my friend but I've been at this for a while. Most true GFE ladies really do enjoy what they are doing and it's really not that unusual to coax a genuine, honest to goodness, writhing, panting, squirming orgasm out of them.

Metaphysically speaking, we'll never really know.

But if you think she is having an orgasm, then why not believe it?

It makes life that much more wonderful.

That's right, making money and experiencing physical pleasure are mutually exclusive. Not!
Perhaps a valid questions is, why do you need to believe that.

1. I believe the vast majority of providers' orgasms are fake; this is not to say they didn't enjoy the sex.  But enjoying the sex (and being wet) and having orgasms are two different things.

2. It is not a contradiction to say that the provider is there performing a job, to excite the client on the one hand, and getting off on the other (bad pun alert !  :-)).  Do you think all the ejaculations in porn movies are fake ?   :-)

3. It's mostly show; some men enjoy giving (sexual) pleasure to the provider; they get off from that, so the provider plays along.  Personally, I don't worry too much about pleasing the provider sexually;  I am sure they get all the sex they ever want anyway LOL. Instead, I try to be a gentleman and pleasant company for them, not to impose on their time, etc., and in the process have made a few friends.
 
cheers,

I think that providers can genuinely get turned on during their sessions, and I also think that some probably fake it.  I've seen many posts here from providers that say they wouldn't be in this business if they truly didn't enjoy what they do, and enjoy sex. I believe them.  Yes, they make good money and they want their clients to enjoy their time with her.  And if that means they need to be a good actress now and then, well, so be it.  For me, I know that I won't impress the ladies sexually, but I try to give them some pleasure during the session as well. Am I always successful?  Probabably not, but it is fun trying! lol   And having fun is what this hobby is about, right?

Runningman

When I orgasm, I lose control of my entire lower body, and at times have clocked a guy so hard with knees flying and hips bucking that I've left bruises. (I try not to, but sometimes I just can't help it) Usually, although I am not a squirter, I get so wet that I soak the bed too. Yeah, its totally fake dude. I am so totally talented that I can make my legs shake like I'm having a seizure, and I have total control over when and how wet I get. I'm just that good. You busted me.

GOD when will you guys realize there isn't some secret factory somewhere that mass produces escorts in the same mold like a bunch of robots so that we all act the same, talk the same, and think the same.

This is was great post by SOTF.

Is there some acting going on in the hobby sure. Some of the act when you are with a provider is easier to tell than others.
Mayne I'm neive but I find it hard to belive that providers do this if they didn't enjoy what they were doing to some extent. This probably varies with each client.
I would think whether or not the provider orgasims likely depends on the client as well as the provider.
Also I would think if the provider is enjoying herslef it's a better experience all around.

As for the escort factory comment. What makes this hobby the most interesting is that providers aren't all the same. Each has thier own special things about them which us fun to explore.

I really feel kinda sorry for guys who are going through their hobbying endeavors convinced that everything they are seeing is an act. Then again, maybe they are getting back from the lady exactly what they give her...
My ATF O'd four times last week. After the first one she told me to stay down there and do it again. After the second one she needed a "sensitivity break" and started the mother of all BBBJ's on me. After a few minutes of this I pulled her up and she straddled my face(her favorite DATY position) as I administered a tongue lashing for O number three. When she came she whacked me on the side of the head with her knee as she collapsed onto the bed with her legs shaking. I spun her around into 69 and she came one more time and couldn't stop moaning for about thirty seconds...Then it was my turn! Fake my ass!

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Can I get an AMEN! That's hot....now towards the OP......Not all of us escorts fake it. Sure with some people we may moan a little louder but if I'm not really enjoying myself I will stop the guy and TELL him how I like it. If he's attacking my kitty like it's his last meal, he's going to get stopped real quick because that's JUST NOT FUN. However, the majority of my clients have NO problem getting me off because we have great communication. One of my regulars lifted me up and fucked me against my apartment wall the week before last so hard I had cum running down my ass crack I was so wet. That shit is not fake. I like getting rode nice and hard just like any other woman and with the majority of the men I see I thoroughly enjoy it too!

Try some new escorts and stop being so cynical!

sammy10703621 reads

Shit dude, now you got me feeling all inadequate.
And yes, I am jealous.

That is so BULLLLL!!!!!!!!
must be the one's YOU see, or what YOU are doing, perhaps wrong if each time YOU think she isn't getting off.

I thoroughly enjoy playing, but as stated, some ladies are in it for the show, but there are a few of us that actually love to 'play' ;)

As a newb and apparent first time poster, you're going tell us what is real?  Yes, I agree, they fake it sometimes, maybe most of the time.  And a veteran hobbyist will probably detect this, and deal with it.  There are times, however, where there has been no doubt the lady has Oed.  Your comment "you can't think she actually got off from us, do you?" comes across as cynical and ignorant, plain and simple.  Are you LE or someone with an axe to grind here?  Whatever, best of luck to you in your hobbying endeavors...assuming you are a hobbyist.  With your attitude, you'll need it!

Put in a little more time and see if you still feel the same way.

As a newbie [a total of four encounters with two different ladies] I believe it is what you bring to the lady that determines how she will respond. If you are demanding, pushy or act in any way that she doesn't like, you will get a very professional but fake response. If you get to know and enjoy each other, and do what you do in the natural course of events, she will be relaxed and the O will most likely be real.

Of course, I'll never really know, but in four cases so far, I've enjoyed the shuddering and the gasps, and the sheets did get wet.

Are you just trying to be obtuse? Or is it your natural disposition.

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