I've seen a couple of posts with Ladies getting ripped off or shorted.
I don't get how this happens with established and well reviewed providers. Upon a first meeting as a gentleman I always excuse myself after I leave the donation. I go into the restroom and wait about a minute then go back into the bedroom, living room or wherever. I can usually tell that the envelope has been moved and that puts the provider more at ease. I once read on a providers site that clients need to leave the donation in the bathroom, this way she would excuse herself and make sure things were okie doke. We as a whole (providers & hobbyists ) use sites like this to make sure we play safe. What other ideas can our community share to ensure we are safe?Ladies, please BEWARE of a guy who calls himself Ben and says he is half Egyptian, half Libyan. He is a black man who is very articulate and had a reference by the name of Chelsea. He came over for a session, put the donation on the counter, then ran out with the donation after. I called and asked him why he would do that and he said "it wasn't sustainable" whatever THAT means!
I have his cellphone number and he has responded by text several times but still hasn't returned the money.
DO NOT SEE HIM!!!
It's people (lack of a better term) that make life so difficult for all of us. I know it's not much consolation but fortunately you are safe and was not harmed any further than financially.
hank you for your kind words. As long as we can always say "It could have been worse!"
I just hope I can prevent him from doing this again by posting about my experience and blacklisting him on every site. I wonder if I can add his phone number to this post
Yes, losing the donation stings, but in the grand scheme of things, a piece of crap who would do something like this is capable of so much worse. I agree with HACC; you're safe, unharmed, and can go on with life after a little bump in the road like this. Much to be grateful for.
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I'm so very sorry that happened to you. That's for sharing so we all know to count the money and then put it away immediately.
So glad your okay
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xoxo
I've seen a couple of posts with Ladies getting ripped off or shorted.
I don't get how this happens with established and well reviewed providers. Upon a first meeting as a gentleman I always excuse myself after I leave the donation. I go into the restroom and wait about a minute then go back into the bedroom, living room or wherever. I can usually tell that the envelope has been moved and that puts the provider more at ease.
I once read on a providers site that clients need to leave the donation in the bathroom, this way she would excuse herself and make sure things were okie doke.
We as a whole (providers & hobbyists ) use sites like this to make sure we play safe. What other ideas can our community share to ensure we are safe?
I don't get how this happens with established and well reviewed providers. Upon a first meeting as a gentleman I always excuse myself after I leave the donation. I go into the restroom and wait about a minute then go back into the bedroom, living room or wherever. I can usually tell that the envelope has been moved and that puts the provider more at ease.
I once read on a providers site that clients need to leave the donation in the bathroom, this way she would excuse herself and make sure things were okie doke.
We as a whole (providers & hobbyists ) use sites like this to make sure we play safe. What other ideas can our community share to ensure we are safe?
Ladies may want to have a built-in safe in the room, and take the money to a bank, (if possible) at earliest opportunity as to not keep a lot of on yourself like at Casino tables or check out stands at grocery stores.
Think you know the say in Hawaii he need many "false cack" upside his head/face
Hi sweetie thanks for the heads up. What's his number if you don't mind sharing . I'm so sorry this happened but and God you are safe.
Glad you're physically OK. I don't think you can put his number here but you can probably pm all you girlfriends here. And you can always blast him on the Internet. But if he may know where you live you may want to be cautious on blasting. Even though he deserves it.
hi there
I'm sorry to hear this and what a pig.
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Sorry to hear about what happened to you. Did you check his reference? Did you check to see that Chelsea was a verified provider?
Oh, Poor girl!!!!
We get thick skin in this business!!!!!!
I had about 8 scams happening to me last year.
One (that I just prevented) could be really bad too.
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SOME VERY RUDE GENTLEMAN DID NOT FOLLOW RULES AND MY DIRECTIONS, LIED, THERE WERE TOO MANY RED FLAGS. HE GOT UPSET THAT I CANCELLED THE MEETING. HE THREATENED ME TO POST BAD REVIEWS AND MY ADS TO BACKPAGE ETC. USING MY PHONE NUMBER AND EMAIL FOR SCAMMERS...
Oh, THAT IS LOS ANGELES...
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I was kind enouth to forgive previous "bad" guys, I did not have time to follow up on issue, they owe me 20+K altogether. I AM VERY GENEROUS (OR MAYBE STUPID TRYING TO AVOID ANY CONFLICTS???)
Does TER or any other site allow us girls to post warnings and phone numbers????
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You may want to check P411, also verifyhim.com as well.
I bet some of the ladies will PM you with additional information.
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need to tune up your screening protocols. Just sayin'.
That said, no one likes getting scammed and it makes it harder for the rest of straight up mongers.
On a somewhat unrelated subject, would you enlighten us about your photos, are they really yours? They do look fantastic, by the way.
Thanks for the message and compliments! Yes, my photos are 100% real and authentic!!! Send me an email and I will show you more! I also take selfies and have a Twitter account under my porn stage name, DeannaDareXXX
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