Have been idle for a few years but wanted to reacquaint and meet some new. I sent references and contact info for ladies I've been with - perhaps info overload - to a couple of reputable women (new) and have not heard back for a couple of weeks. Even with a cordial follow up. I know things come up and life takes turns but is possible to overdo the screening info ? Was thinking thorough would provide more comfort (?) Or is short and sweet better ?
... Your name (some also want age & other personal stats), 1 or 2 references (usually the ladies email, website,etc), and the time, date and duration of requested date. Its really not all that much, and its pretty simple and straight forward.
What exactly did you send that you think is info overload?
What exactly did you send that you think is info overload?
I'm always happier reading a novella than I am having to send a lot of back and forth e-mails trying to obtain more info! More information generally makes us feel more secure (well, assuming it checks out, lol), and it allows us more insight into who you are and what a date together would be like. 
Hope you enjoy your re-entry into the hobby!
It could be Smith, Carlos or Oleg so short and sweet, it is!
on to the next few ladies
Most gents don't realize the shennagins a lot of other men try to pull: fake info, half filled out screening forms, etc. or I find out their fake info/name, using friends handles... like they didn't think I will check...
When a client trusts that I am professional: I have the reviews, the website, the upscale ads that I shell out for, and an established reputation that doesn't change in every city....he'll give me his info. Sadly, guys get lazy and then wonder why they get ripped off or worse by the person on the phone who was "no questions asked"....
I hate having to play "convince me to screen" game...
A recent client, like yourself, gave me all his info and then some..I called him "my unicorn"...It was a blast. He was happy, I had a great time because I could relax a bit more. The open clients are always the most fun..
I'm not saying screen blindly...make sure the lady has a rep before shelling out your info...I want you safe too.
When a client trusts that I am professional: I have the reviews, the website, the upscale ads that I shell out for, and an established reputation that doesn't change in every city....he'll give me his info. Sadly, guys get lazy and then wonder why they get ripped off or worse by the person on the phone who was "no questions asked"....
I hate having to play "convince me to screen" game...
A recent client, like yourself, gave me all his info and then some..I called him "my unicorn"...It was a blast. He was happy, I had a great time because I could relax a bit more. The open clients are always the most fun..
I'm not saying screen blindly...make sure the lady has a rep before shelling out your info...I want you safe too.