HD,
Your posts are always in linguistic "HD" . . . classic' up the joint!Just curious how many providers are getting real os. Almost every review you read says the guy gave her an O doing this or that. Stats don't really support those claims and in my experience, there is always a lot of (good) acting involved but I guess I'm the exception in that I prefer less pretending. Just food for thought more than anything.
After faking a couple orgasms when I started providing almost four years ago, I decided that felt crappy and wasn't doing anyone any favors. It wasn't fair to my clients, who deserved to experience real female pleasure (and have the validation of doing things right down there!) and undermined how I marketed myself as genuine and unscripted. I also found that showing men what real orgasms look like and how I achieved them (and how many I could realistically have- very few women are going to have ten 0's in two hours, eek!) helped put a lot of porn-induced myths to bed, and was (for some) an important anatomy lesson, lol. I also (obviously) enjoy sessions more if I'm getting off, too! I find it empowering and wonderful to have that mutuality.
Of course, some providers would argue that men are paying for a fantasy, and I agree it's important to maintain that vibe/dynamic in a session for folks who desire that. However, I find more guys desire something more authentic and sincere beyond the realm of fantasy. Getting off for real makes things better for both myself and my date, and I also enjoy demonstrating some vulnerability in that way and fostering a better connection. So, here's to real orgasms!
HD,
Your posts are always in linguistic "HD" . . . classic' up the joint!
I can voicj for the beatific Harlowe. She definitely is not faking it. 😜
Of course, some providers would argue that men are paying for a fantasy, and I agree it's important to maintain that vibe/dynamic in a session for folks who desire that. However, I find more guys desire something more authentic and sincere beyond the realm of fantasy. Getting off for real makes things better for both myself and my date, and I also enjoy demonstrating some vulnerability in that way and fostering a better connection. So, here's to real orgasms!
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If it feels good, it's bound to happen
Some guys review themselfs instead the Lady... that too funny..do I do not read reviews I am not VIP... I hear about.... from friends ....
NOW...
Without BS or been hypocritical
or try to be a perfect escort........ because I am not .. and perfection is boring...
Is not every guy that u have great chemistry ...... and the same to guys with the provider ...
but there are some good cannolis out there
This is very intimate business we are not robotics WeII at Least I AM NOT IoI
U can give directions to help the encounter... specially first time ....usually guys are happy when you do it
regular encounters are usually The best ..was talking about this the other day
Anyway
hugs
Carla di capri
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Well said Bella. Your candor is always refreshing.
Some ladies are downright lousy at faking it. And I'm presuming some are outstanding at faking it, complete with contractions, gasp, and shudders (One never knows, do one)
I just go-with-the-flow. If she O's Great! If she is honest and dosen't, it's not the end of the world, and as long as the service was otherwise good....I'll repeat.
If she obviously fakes it.... Adios Muchacha.
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Ask how she likes it... we are all different.
Effort says a lot and if you truly want to give pleasure listen to your lover.
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I always ask how she likes it. I want her to enjoy it if she wants to. Otherwise we are kind of wasting each other's time if she's not into it.
Effort says a lot and if you truly want to give pleasure listen to your lover.
"but there are some good cannolis out there " O Carla #OMG . There are no robotics only cannolis hehehe!!!
there is only cannoli, singular AND plural, Never cannolis. That said there are so very few high quality cannoli out there where the outer and inner ingredients are AAA. ANd for sure at leaf one of them knows what I think.
fino alla prossima volta
So va benne
dbl
ITALIAN
sì sto aspettando tanti baci per te
"....cc
LOL.... thought this was funny. I actually can get orgasms (only by DATY). But takes me a while to warm up.
There's times I can't, but I won't fake it. It would be hard for me to fake it since my orgasms are a bit intense. ;