Pathetic how some providers make you provide everything but your social security number, you pass all the screening with references and everything, then don't even respond to your query for setting a date. Absolutely zero class. You might look hot but obviously your etiquette is complete garbage. Good luck getting any business with that kind of f_cked up MO.
...are the ones who don't even bother responding to simple emails asking legitimate (non-sexual) questions pertaining to who they will or won't see. They don't deserve our business. They are obviously lacking in not only business etiquette, but also basic social skills. Eff 'em.
Definitely agree. If you are not going to respond to those types of legitimate questions, have the decency to make that clear in a graceful way - for instance, any sort of restrictions you might have, such as ethnic. Hopefully these air-headed, self important ladies will run themselves to the ground sooner rather than later. They don't deserve anyone's business and they don't deserve to be here ruining hobbyists' impression of this community. People have a right to change their mind for whatever reason, but for f_ck sake, have the courtesy to inform people who are awaiting a reply. Otherwise take your stupidity and f_ck off.
I appreciate a provider that gives some consideration to a private PM and whitelists. I prefer that to providing detailed personal information. Sadly, I pass on all that require too much info.
I thought the whole point of having whitelists from well known ladies was to enable those with a track record to avoid having to go through the whole 99 yards of screening every time you want to see a lady. Seems like some want to make it damn near impossible to see them. Like "oh it can't just be a whitelist, the provider must have more than 20 reviews..." or some such garbage. That's certainly their prerogative. And we hobbyists should oblige and take our hard earned money elsewhere. We're not hear to go through an effing Olympic obstacle course with high hurdles.
Whitelist was not only help us guys but it was designed to be a tool for the ladies to make screening easier.
Last year, I heard way too many complaints from ladies not wanting to take whitelist or even bothering looking at them.
I kinda figured out that many of them did not have VIP membership to read them and many of them were too new to even know other ladies in the community, making a whitelist useless to them. There is nothing wrong with the lady being safe and setting her own standards, but they have to be realistic. Several ladies did not want to see me last year only because my whitelists were over 6 months old, yet several of them would still vouch for me if they had emailed them. Being a regular worked against me.
I totally feel your frustration thighhigh. When that hot office assistant bends over in her short shirt and gets you in the mood, nothing more can kill that mood is prolonged screening or worst yet no call back. Hope there is a hot provider that come to your relief soon and thanks for positing this.
at least have the effing COURTESY to let him know you have changed your mind, with possibly some sort of context or explanation. Especially if they have jumped through your f_cking hurdles - phone number, full name, occupation/company etc - ...goddamn friggin bullshit if you ask me.
know sometimes for me emails get jumbled, missed, read but nor replied... I always encourage people to email me a second or third time if they haven't gotten a response. It's not about professionalism always, sometimes there aren't enough hours int he day to get things done and, well, we're human! Errors happen and things get missed.
I am hopeful that this is the case.
If not perhaps email her also and ask if everything is ok or if there was a problem with your screening.
If STILL no response, just move on.
If you're concerned about the amount of info you gave her try choosing providers who use referencing by other ladies or P411 or date-check not with personal info. I have heard some ladies collect the info and use it as ammunition to manipulate ratings (I know where you live so that review better be a 10/10 - or something).
Try to smile this is supposed to be fun
If someone does't respond then they must not need or want your business
There are many of us who are ready and willing to meet so keep shopping!
XO namast
I have been fortunate enough to learn how to communicate effectively from a former provider. She taught me how to answer every email in a very polite and timely manner, as well as how to access the whitelist on TER, which is a valuable tool IF it is used properly and honestly by providers.
Being polite, reliable and prompt with communication works on both sides here! Also, if the vibe isn't right, move on!!!!
...we'd never need another thread like this one 
I have been fortunate enough to learn how to communicate effectively from a former provider. She taught me how to answer every email in a very polite and timely manner, as well as how to access the whitelist on TER, which is a valuable tool IF it is used properly and honestly by providers.
Being polite, reliable and prompt with communication works on both sides here! Also, if the vibe isn't right, move on!!!!
...that there's more to the job than being good looking and good in bed.
The flakes and disorganized ones never last very long no matter how great they look. There may be a limited number of guys with low self-esteem willing to put up with that shit for a while but eventually they get tired of it too.
It was called TER. It's pretty much just an ad site and a place where people insult each other now.
Just move onto the next one which always has great communication.
I was planning to just let this go, but after reading some of the comments in this thread, it sounds like people do want flakes to be reported.
Getting back into the hobby after a very long absence, and found a FBSM provider who fit what I was looking for (I prefer outcall, love a lot of kissing, and definitely love it if DATY is on the menu), and had about a dozen good reviews from when she was in Tuscon, but is now advertising in LA. Ashley, TER ID 173942. Communicated via text, and set up an appointment a few days later. Very pleasant back and forth in our texts, and I texted her the day before our scheduled appointment to confirm and give my address, and she replied back that she was looking forward to it.
Then the day of the appointment: nothing. About 30-40 minutes after she was late, I texted her to see if everything was alright, or if she was having trouble with traffic, and no reply. About an hour and a half later, I just gave up, but did text her again to ask that if she had changed her mind, could she at least have the courtesy to let me know? Again, nothing.
Really? I shaved my balls for this? Back to looking, I guess.