My previous post was removed due to not meeting TER guidelines. Thank you guys for your previous comments. I apologize that I didn't get a chance to reply.
I'm not a time watcher, but I have never given a non-stop hand job for one hour and 45 minutes. The appointment was booked for 30 minutes hj only. Okay, it's thirty minutes and NO CUM! What the heck is going on here?! Hmmm... is it me? Do I suck at giving a hand job? Absolutely not! I've given many in the past. It must be him! Some of you know that I'm very generous with my time, but this has set a record in my book. I decided to go the extra mile, by giving him an extra 30 minutes, a total of one hour and still NO CUM! Now it's time for me to stop and have "the talk". After the talk, I decided to try again and it went on for another 45 minutes. Now I'm fed up, both hands are tired and his TIME IS UP! What was the problem here? I would like to hear your opinion on this? FYI: I didn't charge him extra and he didn't offer a tip. Nikki Rayeest to just move on and not book this guy again unless he will do the full hour
Guys: if you can't do it in 30min don't book 30min! Book longer!
Girls: if this happens to you it's fine to go the extra mile but mention being over time and it will be extra BEFORE the original booking time has elapsed. Nothing makes a guy nut quicker than knowing he will have to fork over more cash!
Sounds like he took advantage of you a bit. But that's not as bad as one that happened to me! This guy books high end ladies for hour(s) for GFE but only books massage with me. Ok, no big deal as we meet frequently. Well on this particular day we had bubbly and talked a while and time was about half gone on the hour so we got to work. And I mean work! We are talking about a 45minute or longer hand job. I'm getting exhausted. He's not coming. I am nice and don't request extra thinking he would be a gentleman and tip at least. Nope. Now we are 30min over time and he is still not cumming. Finally got him off (and yes, I'm quite annoyed) but smile and part ways happily. Except that he didn't compensate me for the extra time! Let's just say this has affected our relationship slightly and I am unwilling to offer hour massage dates to him at this point. I have asked him to only book hour+ girlfriend dates or longer massage dates. Anyway. Long story but I feel you.
Chin up and carry on
Namaste
Yes, I have moved on and decided to charge for my time and not based on the activities. I will no longer offer half hour appointments. Thanks ladies!
I agree he took advantage of the situation. I agree we are all paying for time. When his 1/2 hour was up (plus maybe a grace period of 10 minutes) I think you should have said, listen your time is running out either finish or agree to pay for the extra time.
On the flip side, it has happened to me only rarely but I expect that if I pay for time we use the whole time. Some providers think 1 hour means 1 ejaculation. I can rarely do more but if/when I cum early I would expect that after a rest we use our remaining time advantageously. A very few times I was refused and told I would have to pay more for a second round. If that is not explained up front I get pretty peeved at this information.
I have had it happen to me while receiving a HJ or more. It is not something you plan or hope to happen. If I go beyond my time and realize that it is not going to happen, I say sorry, my fault, and move on. You were a trooper to go as long as you did! He was lucky in some ways - and not so lucky in other ways!
I would had tipped more!
Nikki-
Possible the guy had his prostate removed (what they do when you get prostate cancer) which means you don't create sperm anymore. With the right surgery you "feel" but don't outwardly cum. Clearly he took advantage of you anyway.
I'm not a time watcher, but I have never given a non-stop hand job for one hour and 45 minutes. The appointment was booked for 30 minutes hj only. Okay, it's thirty minutes and NO CUM! What the heck is going on here?! Hmmm... is it me? Do I suck at giving a hand job? Absolutely not! I've given many in the past. It must be him! Some of you know that I'm very generous with my time, but this has set a record in my book. I decided to go the extra mile, by giving him an extra 30 minutes, a total of one hour and still NO CUM! Now it's time for me to stop and have "the talk". After the talk, I decided to try again and it went on for another 45 minutes. Now I'm fed up, both hands are tired and his TIME IS UP!
What was the problem here?
I would like to hear your opinion on this?
FYI: I didn't charge him extra and he didn't offer a tip.
Nikki Raye
First let me say I respect the endurance and customer service!
If it's gone that long with no finish it means either 1) he can't finish - lotta reasons for this or 2) he can but doesn't want to and is stringing the time. I usually book 4 hour appointments, I go 3-5 times. Every once in a while I have difficulty with the last one. Sometimes I just say this feels awesome but it's not going to happen and we just call it, other times I try a few things that have worked before.
If he's honestly struggling but you think he can finish then the best suggestions I have are:
1) Stop trying, back all the way off (all the way to limp) let him totally reset, then try again. Guys can get a mental block, and their mind can focus on what's not working, which of course makes the problem so much worse. Backing off especially if the woman makes it "no big deal" works much better than just continuing what isn't working. After a reset I can usually finish in 10 minutes. If I can't in 10 it's not going to happen.
2) Try washing your hands in cold water, the temperature differential can bring more sensitivity.
3) Not sure if you use lube or not, but sometimes it's a help (feels nice) and sometimes it actually makes it more difficult (no friction), so you might try the opposite if whats happening isn't working.
4) How warm is the room? I've noticed that if my body temperature rises it takes me longer.
Hope this helps
Obviously his problem. I'd make the rule very clear..at most 10 min grace period.
I read that medicines for bladder & prostate cancer will destroy any home run.
For me lubrication is the key; slow, long, well-lubricated sensual strokes. Often friction desensitizes me before I can reach the Promised Land. If desensitization occurs and there is time I ask for a break. If time is up, I am still thankful for the journey even if I did not make the destination. I will draw on my memories it a little later. If I run over regardless of final outcome I tip accordingly. I truly appreciate. It's me no you.
He had to resort to auto-erotics:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1040928