As a new provider, I am not sure how to handle my schedule in the next few weeks when Aunt Flo is due to arrive. I am not always sure what day to expect her. Do I let my clients know that she may be here? Do I cancel if she arrives? I know some men are fine with her joining us, but some aren't. And of course, some months she decides she never wants to leave! Any advice from providers and hobbyists would be appreciated.
I agree...this is more of a "provider thingy" and I can gurantee that ANY hobbyist will want to know when "it" is here. NEVER go into an appointment while its that time and try to pull it off as "oh gosh, I had no idea"...if I were a guy, that would piss me off to no end!
You should have some idea of when its gonna hit. There are signs and symptoms a few days before...whether it be pigging out, becoming the anti christ, crying all the time, whatever...there are signs. If you havent already...this would be a good time to take a red pen and mark a "P" on the days you are, and then you can compare it monthly. And IF it happenes to hit while you have scheduled appointments...YES. You notify those who are scheduled and let them know!! If someone contacts you during, YES you let them know...let THEM make the choice to see you, not see you, reschedule or go with a half priced oral...NEVER NEVER NEVER try to cover it up. It will always backfire on YOU!
Oh..and word of advise..those "sponges"..alot of providers may think they are getting away with it, but Ive heard from too many men they ALWAYS feel it..not to mention there is a "certain scent" no matter how you try to cover it during that time...no way around that!
ALWAYS inform the gentleman! Your business will decrease or increase on how you handle THAT situation.
your potential clients know. Some ladies offer specials on french lessons during this time. Guys that insist on DATY will obviously pass.
I highly doubt there are any hobbyists that want us in here talking about our period, let alone be able to advise on it. Take the previous posters advice and move it to the provider's only forum. JMHO
i think the question is appropriate here for her (& other gals) to get feedback from hobbiest & just not providers from that forum.... i for one would want the provider to contact me & let me know. i def. would want to cancel the date, but i would re-schedule w/her the following week, if she is a travler, well next time she is in town i would want to see her. I contacted her because i want to see her from my research, referal, or have been w/her before. my firsdt experience w/a provider, she called up 6-7 hrs before to let me know aunt flow was visiting & cramping. we just re-sheduled for the following week, no big deal, & i so respected her for her honesty & will def repeate w/her in the future...my .02...
"my firsdt experience w/a provider, she called up 6-7 hrs before to let me know aunt flow was visiting & cramping. we just re-sheduled for the following week, no big deal, & i so respected her for her honesty & will def repeate w/her in the future"
See girls...honesty. Works every time!
For me at least, DATY comes off the menu then. I'm not afraid to see a lady then, but if you're going to be icked out about it yourself, and spend the whole time feeling gross, maybe you should adjust your offerings or availability.
I've seen ads from some ladies who offered special "French only" sessions during that time, and even a few ladies who feature Greek sessions then, too. I would have no compunctions about booking one of those sessions, though I know that some guys just don't even want to be around if they know you're having your period.
Thanks everyone for the feedback. I put it out there for the guys as well because I wanted their opinion on seeing me. Some men don't care, some want french lessions, some run screaming. lol! I would always let the hobbyiest know ahead of time. I am not one to play games. Life is way too short for that! Happy Holidays.
Kari