Am I the only one who gets a rush when I sneak out on my significant other? I wonder why I get this thrill of doing shit I'm not suppose to be doing. Does anyone else get this thrill? Or are you guys numb to it by now?
"Danger" is it's own aphrodisiac. There are several levels of "doing shit I'm not suppose to be doing" associated to hobbying. "Sneaking out" for anything forbidden and successfully returning without being noticed or suspect is part of the "thrill" in any tryst.
Actually I have to admit to a rush associated with. The idea or knowledge that ai am going to meet with somebody - a provider- and that "something" will happen. There is a certain amount of titillation that arises from the forbidden aspect of what we do. however as soon as it is tied to my wife all exhilaration fades. I get great pleasure in what Indo and the time I share with the women with whom I spend time. But I get no satisfaction and only shame and guilt with the knowledge that I am cheating on and deceiving my wife. 😓
Define cheating, marriage means a lot different things to different people.
For sure! The rush is a great part of it for me! I don't have any guilt because for me this is the best and safest way to fulfill fantasies. No one person can be 100% of everything for someone. I know my wife has her little crushes etc and I'm ok with that. And before you ask would I be ok if she did? The answer is yes, I practice what I preach so that makes me not worry about the guilt or whatever.
Play safe and have fun.ifes too short.