I have a bit of a pee fetish, but I haven't been able to fully explore it. It's not an easily searchable thing on here. I've seen a few providers who offer golden showers. And even some who allow mutual, but only below the neck. I was wondering if there's a provider in the LA area that would be ok with allowing it in their mouth and on their face, and possibly even swallowing. I know it's usually part of a sub/dom thing, but I don't need it to be that way. It's just something I want to try out as part of a session, either before or after in the shower.
I know it's a bit of an extreme request, but if there's anyone out there that does this could you PM me about it?
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Just so you know I don't believe people can PM an alias, not that I'm interested in this scereno.
I think you'd have better luck looking for a professional submissive. Maybe at one of the many dungeons or on a few of the ad malls that have bdsm and submissive categories. Google submissives + Los Angeles and maybe try a search with showers added in too.
I do not understand how you think this is not part of the dom/sub culture. Peeing on someone is degrading and yes it doesn't have to be humiliating but unless its your SO or lifestyle partner where its considered being as close as you can really be with another person by digesting their golden juices.
Now, I do offer golden showers and I do not feel like I'm degrading or humiliating my clients unless that's part of their desired session. I consider myself a sensual domina and most the clients that request this have a fetish for any and all things wet which may or may not include female ejaculation and spit. But, unless the person your seeking out falls into this area I'd still consider it degrading and submitting to the person doing the peeing (that's me tho). Maybe someone else will chime in differently.
Good luck!!
Thanks. 
I'm still fairly new to TER. You're right about it being part of the culture. I guess what I mean is, I just prefer not feeling like I'm forcing her to do it, but instead that it's like a mutual enjoyment. I guess that the sub/dom community is the best route though. Thanks for your help.
then I'm sure she will enjoy it. Probably even beg to have it with enthusiastic joy. Being dominate doesn't always mean being mean, degrading or humiliating another person. For me, I like to take the lead in a sensual way. I have no issue voicing my likes or how I like things done so their pleasurable for me and my guests.
BTW you might try posting this on the bdsm board on here as well. I always forget its there since its semi newish but give it a try and check out the dungeons and google.
Good luck
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I guess this is sort of like my post from last week. If a guy wants to pee on a girl why does it have to be degrading. Why can't it be just part of their fun together? Why does a spank or a hair pull have to be BDSM?. Doesn't calling it part of a sub-culture, make it seem different, bad or wrong? Isn't this one of the reasons guys come to us because we won't say they are bad or gross or wrong if they request something besides missionary?
I guess once a had a friend dress up as Snow White (with the fake boobs, wig, lipstick and frilly panties)and I saw how happy he was - I realized different strokes for different folks and it is all okay.
I will now get off of my soapbox now.
I offer everything on the TER profile and ALOT more services not even listed. So, I'd say I'm far from being judgemental.
The reason clients seek vanilla providers for fetish work is so they can save money (fetish is higher usually) and push boundaries. Pissing and defeacating all over someone's face and into their mouth is so far from vanilla.
It is delusional to believe any other reason.
And yes somethings are just bad and wrong, just cause someone has a fetish for it doesn't make it acceptable. Examples of questionable fetishes, small critter crushing, beastiality, racist roleplay, religion roleplay, pretending to be one's underage child, etc.
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Noting wrong with boundaries, we all have them. I just don't like having to put things in nice neat little boxes with titles on them like sub, fetish or bdsm. Of course not all fetishes are acceptable, I never said they were. What I meant was my Rocky Road may be someone else's vanilla, that's all.