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Married guys: What would you with a free weekend?
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What would you married hobbyists do with an entirely free weekend? My wife leaves early Friday for a long weekend away, leaving me completely free from then through Sunday evening. Aside from hobbying, which I certainly intend to do, I'd be curious to know what others would do if you were free for three days. I'm mainly curious about where a middle-aged married guy might go for a great time on a Friday or Saturday night in LA. Maybe this is an opportunity to find a great provider to take to a swingers club. Or maybe there are sex clubs in LA where single men are welcome (although I suspect they are too far underground for someone without connections). The music clubs in Hollywood might be fun but I imagine I'm a bit over the hill for most of the 20-something women who hang out there.  

I'm not necessarily looking for guaranteed sex. But I'd like to experience something new that may or may not involve sex but would at least permit the possibility.  

Ideas? Suggestions

Guess I'm old...

I'd Sleep.
I'd choose movies I want to watch and play them REALLY LOUD.
I'd go get a really good steak.

I'd also find some provider who I wasn't able to meet up with normally and go play like a mad-man... but I certainly wouldn't go hit strip clubs or music venues trying to pick up someone.  That's a bad movie plot just waiting to unfold.  Not worth the risk.

And I'd sleep.

play safe,

DkG

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Well - since my wife of 25 years just found out about my hobby, I'm certainly paying the price economically and emotionally. I wish I had curbed my appetite a bit, and focused on family.  This is a hobby and never a way of life, and I was shocked into reality. I will lose at least 55% and could have been a bit different. Not that I did not have fun at times, but I stupidly thought I would never be found out.  So others, remember this is a hobby, not a life --- this is all not real - an illusion -- the rest I am in the process of losing, sadly.

Posted By: Bwins1954
my wife of 25 years just found out about my hobby, I'm certainly paying the price economically and emotionally.
That sucks.  How did she find out?

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Photo of my ATF on my computer (hidden in trash), she really started paying attention to money as it was running so tight. My ATF and I were together for 2 years, then I left an empty package of Cialis in the drawer. After that she found a message on my phone that I never thought she would find. I did get out of control, pretending golf Friday's and forgetting that she usually likes to see my score card. Of course, there was no score card.  Just ruined all I had, don't really care now though as I miss my ATF more than anything.
 

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Posted By: Bwins1954
my wife of 25 years just found out about my hobby, I'm certainly paying the price economically and emotionally.
   
 That sucks.  How did she find out?

"free" time for me, versus a "free" provider.  Semantics, but WTF.  
If the whole club thing turns you on, then please go for it and knock yourself out.  We'll never ever have to worry about crossing paths there.  

For me, it's the calming time spent with a very special lady over a an extended period of time.  The things that build bridges and the mutual attraction between two people.

I'd snag a sailboat out of Newport on an early Friday, head to Catalina, spend two evenings, and sail back on Sunday.

The idea of having the time to to spend with one of two amazing ladies is quite seductive.  Then again, I prefer to spend time getting to know each other on a deeper level is more important than running around like a crazy guy chasing 20-something airheads around.  Which puts me at odds with some of the grand master guys that inhabit the GD board and that's ok by me

I wouldn't bother with dance clubs myself, and you are right about the swingers clubs, unless you know someone do not bother if you do not have a girl on your arm.

There is a Golf club in Vegas with Hot Sexy caddies that are supposedly actually pretty good at reading the greens. I'd do that. You wont get extras from what I understand but it'd be fun.

Sleep, I'd probably visit at least 2 ladies a day, everyday, so, other than them, I'd be sleeping!

HEY HEY Parents went out town LET 's  throw a PARTY!!!
Sort  the same dynamic LOL
DO U mind give you  a suggestion ???
Migth be not a good idea hang out in public with provider...
While Wife be gone ..
Small world you know..
Never subestime a Woman or wife or  mom intelligence LOL
Use ur freedom with responsibility

Leave the parents home... or a divorce
can be very expensive....
Hum...
Funny years goes  by
And  rules remain the same

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I would head down to the Commerce Casino for some long poker sessions. With the hotel upstairs it's easy to get a room and bring in some girls. Win a few thousand and spend it all in the same place.

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