And it seems like you are seeing and reviewing ladies about on par with their profiles. So it's hard to understand what exactly you are expecting.
Why would you visit a lady with an aggregate 6.5 score (for example) and then be surprised that you aren't having a 9 or 10 score-worthy time? Increase your odds of being wowed by seeing someone with reviews that wow you!I have been on a streak of ladies that are not at all what they advertise. It seems like just about all of them embellish a little but when they misrepresent their age by 10 years and photos are either from way back in the day or even worse clearly somebody else is where I draw the line. I have even tried to single out some that are in their 30's in hopes they might be more real but with no luck. The last one was supposed to be in her early thirties with many revealing photos but when the door closes and the lady standing in front of me was clearly in her late 40's this was my cue to choose to walk out the door and informed her that I was looking for the girl in the photos and she was not here. Yesterday I was perusing the reviews and decided to reach out to a well reviewed provider only to have her flag my email saying that I saw her girlfriend and she did not like the way I talked with her nor my attitude and was not interested in seeing me. Curious what the majority have to say about this situation?
what i am really saying is, if you don't expect a lady to under report her age by 5-10 years, you are not living in reality. that's just how it is. when reading reviews, just know that whatever age range the ladies are listed in, is most likely a category or two under what their real ages are.
what i have found to be helpful is to reach out via pm or email to the guys who have seen a lady that i am interested in, and ask about specifics that are important to me. if true age is important to you, or looks, it doesn't hurt to ask guys who have seen a lady. of course, be discreet and polite, and don't be disparaging either of the specific lady or these ladies in general, or the guys who see them. there's a polite way to ask.
but also remember we gentlemen are not anything to write home about either. i have never walked away from a lady based on her looks and/or age veracity. and i have walked through more than one door to find someone whose pictures were obviously taken last decade. it takes a lot for me to not follow through with a date, and when i have left, it has been mutually agreed upon that it wasn't working out for both of us. cest la vie.
And it seems like you are seeing and reviewing ladies about on par with their profiles. So it's hard to understand what exactly you are expecting.
Why would you visit a lady with an aggregate 6.5 score (for example) and then be surprised that you aren't having a 9 or 10 score-worthy time?
Increase your odds of being wowed by seeing someone with reviews that wow you!
I usually enjoy the FBSM session more than FS most of the time so due to TER regulations I am not able to score higher that a 7, which most of you already know. The provider I had described has a minimum of 8 and most closer to 9, so I don't see how the higher the rating the more honest the provider will be?
A little embellishment comes with the territory,as does photoshop. If some things are imprortant to you.such as age,weight, or the age of the photos,verify these items before making the appt. On meeting her always be polite if you think she`s crossed a line,and expect the provider to act in the same fashion.
To see some ladies in person. We all do not lie, or misrepresent.
Totally agree!
have flagged any excessive overstatements or photo misrepresentations of that provider in their review.
I expect that a provider present only (or at least focus on) her absolute best on her website and her ads including using her best pictures, just the way we would write our own resume. Now in my fifties, I'd be lucky to receive a 3 or 4 if my provider were rating me, so I am just pleased when a well-reviewed provider agrees to see me.
Very early in my hobby experience I had a blatant "bait-and-switch" experience (the ad photos were of a college-age, fair complexion, thin brunette when she was actually a BBW African-American), but I blamed myself for not doing my homework thoroughly. I chose not to see the provider but gave her 1/2 her donation and recommended that she use more accurate pictures in the future to avoid situations like you described.
Being more experienced now and thoroughly vetting the providers I am interested in, I have been more than pleased with the accuracy of their photos, descriptions and reviews. As others have suggested you can always discretely check with others reviewers for particulars that are important to you, this has worked very well for me. In addition, I ask my favorite providers if they know the particular provider, especially when I am looking for a provider in a far away city I will be visiting. I find the insight from my favorite providers to be the most reliable.