and reciprocating, especially if the gal is oiled up, can be pretty darn intense.
But to each their own.
Some gals give massages rivaling the finest spa services you'll find.
Others, not so much.
What I do know is that the provider will want to know from you what you'd like and what you don't like.
When you're happy, they're happy.
First of all, hey everyone! I'm happy to finally be joining the hobby. After reading many reviews, I've noticed that most girls like to start sessions with a message. Would it be rude to decline, or is that the best way to progress to full service? I mean, if I really wanted a message, I could get one for ALOT less money.
If you want to move on to something else just say so. The idea of a session is for your good experience. Unless the provider is psychic she doesn't know what you want.
Think "Icebreaker" when you see the word massage. Read the lady's reviews and be sure that she is who you want to see and that others have been satisfied with her service. I find it's a good idea to let the gal warm up to you a bit before you expect them to jump on your bones. Of course you have to determine as the session progresses if she is stalling or just trying to ease into things.
Too many guys think that every time a lady tries to chat, massage or asks you to take a shower that she is stalling. In my experience this is seldom the case with top-shelf ladies. Oh, and as far as the shower goes, if she recommends one, you would be a fool not to accept her offer...
"message"...........hahhaa
As someone wrote here, it is an 'icebreaker'
but if you wanted just the 'qucikie' simply state
that when contacting her, or when she arrives state
you are horny and just need to um er........
and reciprocating, especially if the gal is oiled up, can be pretty darn intense.
But to each their own.
Some gals give massages rivaling the finest spa services you'll find.
Others, not so much.
What I do know is that the provider will want to know from you what you'd like and what you don't like.
When you're happy, they're happy.
As Bostonguy wrote it is used a lot as an icebreaker. A way to get some physical contact in, to start the motor running. Different girls have different ways to get things started. For the most part I would go along with what she is comfortable with at least the first time.
Either I've seen a lop sided sample or you are selecting from reviews a lop sided sample.
My provider selection criteria is mainly great GFE experience, and thus the providers I've seen started each session with conversation and touching/brushing of thighs, kissing, then moved on. I've never had one yet start session with massage.
I've had a couple offer massage at the end of a session though which was fine and a nice touch use the remaining time since I'm a one pop guy. One I accepted and it was very nice, the other was such a great cuddler/kisser that I declined the massage to use the remaining time cuddling/kissing/talking.
First off, welcome to the hobby. As for me, my first foray did not start with a message...it started off with LFK/DFK, however you want to define it. This is unusual in most meetings with first time experiences...usually starts out with conversation in order to get to know each other, then things take off from there. No first time meeeting I have had in nearly four years of hobbying ever started out with a message...maybe if you go to an MP or message therapist? My best advice, when you walk in, set down the donation, let the lady set the pace, and take queues from her as to how to proceed. You'll know! Best of luck to you for your first foray. And, in case you want to know, my first experience...still seeing her. She's the best!
Having been doing this a long time I know how important it is to make the client as comfortable as possible. Many times they are nervous, especialy first timers. I usualy like to start with small talk, light massage, setting the mood. I try and read their signals and follow them. I know that if I didn't take a few moments to warm up both of us and just jumped into it, many would complain that it was not GFE and I just wanted to hurry it up and get it done. So if you want to skip any get to know eachother talk and touch, let her know ahead of time. Communication is key in this hobby. Good luck.