Why would you continue to see them if you aren't satisfied with the service? I do sometimes see a drop off, I usually just stop seeing them for a few months and when I do see them again it's like the batteries have been recharged.
Only once did I have a provider who was worth waiting through the ups and downs, but she is a truly unique caswhats up with that??
when i met my atfs as a new client it was like some porno fest...dt, rimming at violation level, i could do daty and fiv hard as i want, even go two rounds with no complaints and just all smiles and constant effort to pleasure me even to the point the girl was all sweating from the effort.
now i noticed with my regular atfs the service has gone down. now they actually complain if too tired. or some days dont want to cim or rim or massage me cause had busy day etc. when i point out how come they rimmed or cim the earlier client they said thats work and just trying to get business. im like huh? so what am i? then do i get to pay less? then they get all pissy at me and say im like all the rest? wtf?!?!
any of you guys gotten less service with your regular girls?
its simply complacency on their part. They know that they already got you, and they don't have to pull out the extra stops to reel you in. Variety is the spice of life, and can help eliminate having an ATF who starts taking you for granted after awhile.
When you have had a girl friend over the years, hasn't the service sometimes gone at some point also? If not when dating, then when married?
I have noticed certainly noticed this in some cases. But I have also noticed if you stop being so regular and the return a few months later, it's better again.
Same problem with having work done on your house. Use the same person on a regular basis and they are more likely to start slacking off.
Same thing with people's own real job, when you're first hired you try hard to impress. Then after some amount of time you're thinking......hmmm, no one will notices if I skip this step.
It's up to you to make the free market choices as a reminder that customer service really does matter :-
I've noticed this too. I think booking less frequently or booking shorter dates is a potential solution. If that doesn't work then it's time to move on.
Why would you continue to see them if you aren't satisfied with the service? I do sometimes see a drop off, I usually just stop seeing them for a few months and when I do see them again it's like the batteries have been recharged.
Only once did I have a provider who was worth waiting through the ups and downs, but she is a truly unique cas
Gets better and better with time. That's how she becomes an ATF
agree with brenn97 and cherish being an ATF with my regulars. I always make sure we both feel the magic of the first time, as well as being comfortable with each other. I am always grateful of our time together and think of this luxury as stolen moments in the scope of our separate lives. Also, I love to try something new and exciting each time to keep it fresh and exciting!!! :
it will be interesting to see how this thread develops. I agree with the others, there's usually a decline in service after a number of visits. Sometimes they take us for granted, and sometimes they make us feel like an ATM. When the service starts to decline, I move on. Way to many providers to see!
Maybe I'm just better at choosing an ATF. 
The experience should only get better as she learns what you like and you learn what she likes. If she starts to slack off, there's probably a reason for it. I'd love to hear one of the ladies explain why, because it wouldn't sound genuine coming from me
Just depends on the lady. Just like any business, you have the motivated ones then to have the slackers. The slacker never shows himself or herself initially, only when they feel too comfortable
It depends a lot on the guy, too. In this case, more so than usual
because she is sending you a message , bobapredator was blacklisted for 2 years before using a new handle from the septic tank he secured an appointment with the KD who originally blacklisted him . as soon as she saw it was him she slammed the door in his face and changed bookers . He has a reputation for confusing the fantasy with the real thing. Amber , Coco ,
Hosi , Gi-L & Love Kim do not see him .
If find the ATFs that I frequent to be gracious always willing to go the extra miles to please me . We exchange gifts and I even get gift that others give like cheese , spirits , chocolates and wines .
Can you take your pissing contest elsewhere? It's really boring.
You are such a d-bag.
Agreed...until the honeymoon phase is over. For me, I find that during the early years with my atfs, it does get better and better. However, over time, most of the girls tend to do less than before.
Also, once you established a very good relationship with your atfs, it is common to get gifts usually left by her other clients
Then perhaps you are selecting the wrong ATF. The No. 1 reason for slacking off, IMO, is that she no longer enjoys your company. If she wanted a return visit, she would prove it. Actions speak far louder than words
Generally speaking, I agreed with you that selecting the right ATF plus having the right chemistry create a wonderful relationship that gets better and better.
I have a few ATFs, but one in particular might be an outlier. This one, I have seen for over 3+ years now. I usually see her 3-4 times a weeks and also we would spent considerable time together when she is not working. Service wise, it get better and better over the years, but recently it has gotten a bit stale. The high frequency of seeing her might be attributed to this though. I guess it is akin to being married a long time
Over the decades there were a few ladies i saw upwards of 10 times each, one of whom i saw about 40 times over the course of a couple of years. All wonderful and in the case of the latter it was just plain terrific each time.
My regulars become my friends. I do not watch the clock, and I provide more, than I would with someone I just met. My regulars get special treatment because we are friends. Sad some providers feel they can offer less to those who are their regulars.
According to trusted KDs Boba is unable to distinguish between the fantasy and the real thing . He tries to pressure every KD to be his GF and this has resulted in getting him banned . This is an old post by the predator of a thousand aliases. The only ATFs he has are a figment of his imagination. Before getting banned from the septic tank for identity theft (he registered my TER handles as his to get dates by passing himself as me) he accused a fellow predator, vanilla lice, of threatening to beat him up.
To avoid drama! Kindustry people know my real ID. Being anonymous
protects me from being beaten up
Posted 4/11/2012 at 12:51:24 PM
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when i met my atfs as a new client it was like some porno fest...dt, rimming at violation level, i could do daty and fiv hard as i want, even go two rounds with no complaints and just all smiles and constant effort to pleasure me even to the point the girl was all sweating from the effort.
now i noticed with my regular atfs the service has gone down. now they actually complain if too tired. or some days dont want to cim or rim or massage me cause had busy day etc. when i point out how come they rimmed or cim the earlier client they said thats work and just trying to get business. im like huh? so what am i? then do i get to pay less? then they get all pissy at me and say im like all the rest? wtf?!?!
any of you guys gotten less service with your regular girls?
Nobody cares about your bizarre little diatribes and drama here, except for your sycophants. Put a cork in it.
I've found that with the few girls I've seen multiple times it all just get's better. They trust me more, and I trust them more as well. It's easier to find time to see them, they are more accommodating, more open to trying other stuff... going 'off menu' as it were.
A lot of that may be chemistry, but I think it's also how you treat them. Just like in 'real' life... you treat someone well, you get that in return. If you treat them badly, they may put up with you for the cash, but you won't be treated better.
play safe,
DkG
after awhile it becomes too ordinary...it is like being with my SO. I repeat a maximum of 3 times unless the girl is really spectacular.
When I have a regular, she's a regular because of her consistent performance. I've found they appreciate you more
Good to see these comments. Looks like the "minority" opinion is slowly making its way toward "majority" land
ESPECIALLY our most recent one! He's someone we know VERY well but had chosen to remain UTR about his more TABOO experiences; until suddenly, WHAM! He emails us, "Sorry guys, but I just HAD to share THIS one with someone, ANYONE!" Even WE were left slack-jawed by his erotic candor!
Anyway, we're proud that we don't fit into this mold; for us, comfort with someone builds our confidence to explore further - each new session is an opportunity to break yet another boundary which is why we started this journey to begin with. Just for fun guys, read our story of how we started - you're going to think we're fucking CRAZY.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS, NEW YEAR, and Hobbying!
Bianca and Rob
when i met my atfs as a new client it was like some porno fest...dt, rimming at violation level, i could do daty and fiv hard as i want, even go two rounds with no complaints and just all smiles and constant effort to pleasure me even to the point the girl was all sweating from the effort.
now i noticed with my regular atfs the service has gone down. now they actually complain if too tired. or some days dont want to cim or rim or massage me cause had busy day etc. when i point out how come they rimmed or cim the earlier client they said thats work and just trying to get business. im like huh? so what am i? then do i get to pay less? then they get all pissy at me and say im like all the rest? wtf?!?!
any of you guys gotten less service with your regular girls?