we are superficial pigs.
you can come up with all the excuses you want but end of the day its the lust for a younger hotter women then leads men to stray from the women they profess to love. and more the merrier. its no wonder you and me and every other guy wants to bang as many ladies as possible. so how you have wife, multiple providers, and atf isn't hard to figure outknow some ladies who have significant others but I dont get any sense that they love their boyfriiend more because they need them for something.
Can you truly only love your significant other? Is that even possible?
How do you share such intimate moments with your clients emotionally and physically but still be able to have something only with your significant other? I see providers who cuddle, DFK, and orgasm with their clients so whats left to share only with your BF? How do have any real love?
Why even have a boyfriend if you are a provider
Why judge others?
I know some ladies who have significant others but I dont get any sense that they love their boyfriiend more because they need them for something.
Can you truly only love your significant other? Is that even possible?
How do you share such intimate moments with your clients emotionally and physically but still be able to have something only with your significant other? I see providers who cuddle, DFK, and orgasm with their clients so whats left to share only with your BF? How do have any real love?
Why even have a boyfriend if you are a provider?
first im not married so lets clear that up.
second all i want to see is a providers perspective on how she is able to separate or at least keep something only between her and her significant other?. can love exist for the SO?
one of the reasons i never married any of my provider girlfriends. couldnt see how she could really ever love me. looking for some third party experience on whether love for only her BF can happen when shes sharing intimate feelings with her clients especially regulars whom something at a emotional level is shared.
What you are talking about is possessiveness and jealousy. Love is free. Love the one you're with. Of course I was an original wild child, so you can see where I learned that.
By the way, when you see providers cuddle, DFK and orgasm with their client, are you peeking in the window or do you have one of those flex cameras peeping under the door? Not judging here, whatever turns you on and all, just curious.
Exactly! And, love is in the moment. Like a firework of flame it can ignite in a moment, and burn out in a moment. Or, take varying lengths of time to diminish in intensity. How, often it's ignited, and nurtured, it like a campfire on a cold night in the wilderness, determines the nature of the relationship.
Interesting question and by flipping it the other way, introspect led me to a likely answer (at least for myself).
How is that I have a SO/Wife that I care about (assume I'm not leaving or divorcing), but I'm able to still see multiple providers and have an ATF? Obviously something was missing from the SO/Wife relationship in the first place which led me to hobby. However, beyond the physical need, I still have an emotional need that is still being fulfilled. Seeing a provider once a week doesn't equate to 4-6 clients per day, but I'd have to assume that they're much better at compartmentalizing the two than I am. Where the lines begin to blur though is when a provider and client "couple up". That one is tough to figure out and more power to them if they succeed.
we are superficial pigs.
you can come up with all the excuses you want but end of the day its the lust for a younger hotter women then leads men to stray from the women they profess to love. and more the merrier. its no wonder you and me and every other guy wants to bang as many ladies as possible. so how you have wife, multiple providers, and atf isn't hard to figure out
I think that you perhaps are blaming what you feel is "missing" on your SO/wife. Maybe it is missing within you? Maybe you want what you want when you want it. The hobby is the hobby. Family is family. Blurring the two does not work totally. In fact, the hobby can rob happiness out of a family and then we are responsible. Just sayin'
I think that you perhaps are blaming what you feel is "missing" on your SO/wife. Maybe it is missing within you? Maybe you want what you want when you want it. The hobby is the hobby. Family is family. Blurring the two does not work totally. In fact, the hobby can rob happiness out of a family and then we are responsible. Just sayin'
While some girls are better actresses than others.
And some are very good at compartmentalization, much better at it then we are anyway.
While after seeing and getting to know their clients with multiple visits over years, some may actually come to care for their clients, but that is not love.
A real relationship, or SO for a provider gets the real affection and attention, not a facade.
I personally choose not to be in a relationship because of the line of work I am in. But even though I share great moments with my clients they are not mine. I have them in brief moments in time, not daily.
We all need companionship. And sometimes coming home to an empty bed can be a bit lonely. Its like comfort. I spend the night with many of my clients and many of them are like BF's we text regularly, send photos, go to dinner, movies, chat, they buy thoughtful gifts, etc and have generally become friends. But its not the same as having someone of your own.
Bianca
I had the pleasure twice of having more than a casual relationship with a provider. After we went our separate ways the same comment was made a few months later, "You were the last person I had sex for fun with". I took it as a compliment and that it is the state of mind the makes it different. We simply enjoyed each others company.