So let's say you run into someone in the hobby and well... there's something more to it than Hobbyist/Provider.  So first you give it a rest (like you're supposed to).  Then you check in and see if the water is still warm.  She's REAL matter of fact AND limits the time, says, "I'm booked".  THEN she doesn't visit the area where she's "BOOKED" for 4 months?  
 Really?  Avoiding an area where you're BOOKED!  
So you give up on her, accepting that it's just business.  I didn't attend the Wharton Business School but... go where business is GOOD.  Right?

Shrewd business people don't let anything stand in the way of $$$$$.  
Lee Iacocca and the Ford Pinto for example.

I'm just all wrong for this hobby.  Ya know...

Jonatha