Dear nutandbolt,

I'm a little confused by your post. Do you mean that you want your wife to become a provider, or do you want her to do a threesome with you? For the sake of simplicity, we'll call it "you" instead of "a guy." Makes it easier to hypothesize in writing, that's all.

In any case, getting someone drunk and talking him/her into something, even if it's your wife, would probably not be an effective [or recommended] approach. If you're trying to get her to become a provider, I'd be very concerned about your fundamental reasons. For kicks? For financial expansion? Providing is a decision best taken by the subject himself/herself. Otherwise it's called pandering - or pimping - and that's a bad thing to do. I think most people, hobbyists or not, would understand why.

So, for argument's sake, let's assume that you want her to have a threesome with you. You could simply broach the topic by asking her if she would ever consider it. Ask her while she's sober. Listen to what she says. And from there on, proceed based on her response. Some women do find the possibility exciting and will agree to at least one try. If that's the case, let HER pick the provider from the many escort malls available. I wouldn't recommend visiting TER immediately. Unless your wife is clued into your activities, showing off your in-depth knowledge of TER and the various personal websites of providers may cause a negative reaction.

If she says no, then please don't push it. Some women are just not into the bi experience, no matter who the other lady might be. Most professional providers would be amenable and would do a fine job of exciting your wife and delivering the goods. Still, this has to be your wife calling the shots, not you.

The possibilities could be fun,
the Love Goddess