I'm easy. A lady can wear whatever she likes. In fact, there's nothing better than a sexy pair of jeans. Hell, last time, Zayla answered the door in a dinner dress. To each their own, but that was highly stimulating.
I once had back to back sessions set up with an atf, going and coming, during a road trip. She actually forgot the time we'd arranged on the return visit, and answered the door in and old pair of sweats. I actually enjoyed that because it gave me a sense of realness way more than lingerie does.I've had the pleasure of seeing a couple of providers, both of whom were running late, in their civilian clothes. One was exquisitely dressed and the other in jeans. I may be alone in this, but I felt privileged to have seen them this way.
A favorite provider and I were talking about reviews this morning and this topic came up. Apparently, a Hobbyist that she had recently been with gave her a stellar review, but had commented on the fact that she had to meet him in the hotel lobby. The fact that he had seen her in civilian clothes was off putting to him and had put a 'damper' on his Fantasy. Has this happened to you ?
If I am taking them on an outside date, then yeah, I expect them to be in civilian clothes appropriate to the place we are going, and not in lingerie and heels. Lol
However, the reason I don't like Kgirl outcalls in Vegas is that 1) They go easy on the clothing and makeup on outcalls, so they don't stick out as working girls when they walk into the casino, and 2) when I am in hobby mode, I like the first image I see to be lingerie and heels, so incall is better for me.
Did I feel privileged to see them in their civvies? Yes on the outside dating and no on the Vegas outcall.
I also have seen a few girls arriving at their incall late when I was early. Most are embarrassed that I saw them looking "normal", so they gave me a quick hello and off to get changed while I waited for them to get ready.
god, they are human beings too fer cryin in the sink. also, many women are so damn hot they can wear dungarees and gardening gloves and still be hot.
just had a lovely lady whom i had seen drop by my place to bring me some groceries for my recovery. she was wearing civvie clothes. i wanted to jump her bones (of course it could be because i haven't had any for over a month due to my surgery).
i a few weeks ago i was at a lady's incall, and she was running a little late, so i got to see her little ritual of getting out of her civvie clothes, dressing in the outfit i requested, and putting on her make up (she was chatting wildly all through this).
it was incredibly sexy to watch.
ain't nothing wrong with human beings wearing human being clothes. eventually they come off!
I'm easy. A lady can wear whatever she likes. In fact, there's nothing better than a sexy pair of jeans. Hell, last time, Zayla answered the door in a dinner dress. To each their own, but that was highly stimulating.
I once had back to back sessions set up with an atf, going and coming, during a road trip. She actually forgot the time we'd arranged on the return visit, and answered the door in and old pair of sweats. I actually enjoyed that because it gave me a sense of realness way more than lingerie does.
I've requested a few girls wear civie clothes because I wanted to see what she normally wears and well, I wanted to remove them from her.
Totally hot
he fact that he had seen her in civilian clothes was off putting to him and had put a 'damper' on his Fantasy."
I can not even imagine the mindset that would cause such a 'damper'.
A large number of men do not bother with the short interludes. For many of us, dinner dates, overnights, and longer dates are the norm. And, curiously enough, the ladies wear more than negligée on these occasions, as one would expect. My own experience is that the ladies tend to have very elegant, racy, sexy, and seductive wardrobes. I hardly find it a dampening experience. It's more like a buildup to what comes later.
Every encounter offers endless possibilities to connect on every level. Is it possible to confuse lust for love ? Of course. The idea of 'Hobbying' felt poignant in the beginning. We have the resources and she agrees to meet up of her own free will. It's easier to compartmentalize lust in a shorter session. It becomes much harder to differentiate as the sessions become dates and the hours become days. We want to learn more about her, as if knowing allows a closeness not shared by the other Hobbyists. It's all about knowing the things we have control over and what we don't. Some exercise that control by sticking with the Fantasy..
landed on your head on the hard pavement a few times, you learn how to keep things in perspective on longer engagements. I have formed some long-term relationships with some of my regulars that span several years, but I have no illusions about what our time together is all about.
I've sometimes had to meet clients in the lobby by the elevators so I always try to take smart 'office' clothes in case. That way I look like the sexy secretary meeting them for a conference or something. Still high heels and nice clothes with the lingerie waiting underneath. I can imagine meeting a girl in jeans and a T-shirt would blow the fantasy, though occasionally clients request that so it feels like a real girl next door thing? Horses for courses I guess