That you suck so we don't have to beg our wives!
How many guys out here got married and the BJs stopped? This is why I'll never get married : 
Married 40 years, wife loves it more than ever. At least once a week
Okay, so how many are pleasured by your wife or gf more than once a week?
Maybe once a month? She just not that interested at the moment.
We have a strong bond, but her libido's just not there. Doctor says it's not unusual for women of a certain age to have a lower level of desire.....which makes it frustrating...
The GFs Ive had loved to suck my cock but I'm afraid once I settle down all that will stop, plus the sex will stop and/or be less frequent. I can't see any up side to getting married.
I was married for 52 years and we enjoyed oral sex very much up until a couple of years before she died. I could probably write a book on where, when, and how we enjoyed oral sex.
Reminds me of a joke:
What is the difference between having a job for five years and being married for five years?
The job still sucks
We love and adore the wives who don't want to suck anymore. 
This is why God created providers!!!
That you suck so we don't have to beg our wives!
We love and adore the wives who don't want to suck anymore.
This is why God created providers!!!
As much as I like! But, I always say please at the beginning of my request.
-- Modified on 9/20/2014 12:15:42 AM
I'm not a good example as I'm not married. But I've been with the GF for 5+ years and I can tell you that yes the sex and BJ's get less frequent.
Most of my prior GF's liked sucking cock and a few prided themselves on thier BJ's and getting 3-5 a week was common. But most of these relationships though lasted 3-8 months when you're in the 'honeymoon' phase of a relationship and invariably you're going to be at your most frequently sexually active anyway.
The other reason though is I'm not much for BJ's. I don't mind it as part of foreplay and I'm happy to go down on my GF's in return but I'm all about making out and screwing. I can honestly only think of 3-4 girls (total between providers and civvies) I've been with who truly gave me stellar we-can-hold-the-sex-for-tonight type blowjobs. The rest have been... "that's nice and all honey... can we fuck now?"
So yeah I'd say BJ wise my current GF went from maybe twice a month to now... maybe twice a year. But luckily she prefers straight sex over oral too so we have sex a lot more often than that but still nothing compared to our first 6 months of dating!
Which brings us to providers....