Basically she told you to come here to learn. Go to the link at the top of the page and read lots.
If she really meant to get a reference, then she means you need to see other girls first who can vouch for you to her before she will see you. Then next question you have popping into your head is "if girls need a reference, and I haven't seen any girls, how am I supposed to get a reference?"
If you scroll down and check about every 10th posting you will see many answers to that. Short answer is "research". Take time, read reviews, and be honest when contacting a provider.
Good luck.
I am a newbie and have meet a girl on the internet and and she said to go here for a refence before we meet...I guess to make sure i am not a crazy...LOL (can understand that!). Where do I get a freakin reference.... ???
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Basically she told you to come here to learn. Go to the link at the top of the page and read lots.
If she really meant to get a reference, then she means you need to see other girls first who can vouch for you to her before she will see you. Then next question you have popping into your head is "if girls need a reference, and I haven't seen any girls, how am I supposed to get a reference?"
If you scroll down and check about every 10th posting you will see many answers to that. Short answer is "research". Take time, read reviews, and be honest when contacting a provider.
Good luck.