Thanks for that...I guess I'm just frustrated because I've seen a couple of the ladies prior to the enhanced reviews and I thought to myself what's this guy thinking..I have also talked to a few more and they confirmed his screen name and said he offered free pics/videos etc for the site if they gave him a free one....they didn't solicit he offered ...one did it the other didn't.. .I'm in a good place right now with an utr lady...just wanted to get everybody elses perspective....
So far the only time I have been offered a free session was from a provider who was very new to the business. She was good, but was mostly using backpage then. After I met her I felt she would be a good addition to one of the more exclusive sites where you need to be invited. She told me that if I would help her out with that she would give me a free visit. I did send her the invite but noticed that after a month she still had not gotten on. I asked her why and she said she still needed help, but she also dropped off of backpage due to some of the problems that come with that. She was just using a mobile device at the time so that may have been part of the problem. Contacted her to set up a meeting and help her finish getting on the site, but she never got back to me. She still is not on that site she wanted to be on so bad. She's mostly using myproviderguide now. So I don't know if she forgot which guy I was or she didn't want to honor the free visit. Funny thing is, I had no intention of holding her to that. I just wanted to help her out. I would have either stopped by her place with a laptop and no session to help her get the computer work done or told her just knock off whatever she felt was fair.
So now I probably won't bother seeing her again plus she is not on the site she really wanted to get on. Oh well! That are way to many providers out that for me to play those little games. If you treat the ladies right they will treat you right, at least the ladies worth visiting will.
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What do you think when someone uses their position to have ladies give a "freebie" for enhanced ratings on their reviews and free ad pics??? Kinda taints the system don't you think??
That's akin to getting an honest answer from a career politician.
Go look at LA's Top Ten providers, their total number of reviews, their total number of 10 - 10s, and TER's precepts for getting into the top 100 listings. This should give you a better standard for judging and deciding who you'll next see.
I don't think it taints the system. I think it's just like any other business out there, a lead-loss. You ladies treat this as a business, as you should. So why not incorporate some standard business tactics with your advertising? Sometimes you need to get them i the door to become a repeat.
Rather than knock it instantly, try it at least once. It's just like someone saying, what do you think about sushi? I think it's gross and not sure if I want to try it. Never tried it, so you can't judge it.
Just my $.02
EOM
As long as she's good, I'll write a good review.
I have never been offered a free session or discount for writing an inflated review. Though I also have never put the offer out there either. That said, there have been about five providers over the years that either have given me discounts or lots of extra time. That's been for a variety of reasons. Sometimes I do help them out in other ways with marketing. Sometimes it is because I'm easy to deal with and see them more often. Sometimes it is because they don't have anything else to do and just want to hang out longer.
So far the only time I have been offered a free session was from a provider who was very new to the business. She was good, but was mostly using backpage then. After I met her I felt she would be a good addition to one of the more exclusive sites where you need to be invited. She told me that if I would help her out with that she would give me a free visit. I did send her the invite but noticed that after a month she still had not gotten on. I asked her why and she said she still needed help, but she also dropped off of backpage due to some of the problems that come with that. She was just using a mobile device at the time so that may have been part of the problem. Contacted her to set up a meeting and help her finish getting on the site, but she never got back to me. She still is not on that site she wanted to be on so bad. She's mostly using myproviderguide now. So I don't know if she forgot which guy I was or she didn't want to honor the free visit. Funny thing is, I had no intention of holding her to that. I just wanted to help her out. I would have either stopped by her place with a laptop and no session to help her get the computer work done or told her just knock off whatever she felt was fair.
So now I probably won't bother seeing her again plus she is not on the site she really wanted to get on. Oh well! That are way to many providers out that for me to play those little games. If you treat the ladies right they will treat you right, at least the ladies worth visiting will.
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Thanks for that...I guess I'm just frustrated because I've seen a couple of the ladies prior to the enhanced reviews and I thought to myself what's this guy thinking..I have also talked to a few more and they confirmed his screen name and said he offered free pics/videos etc for the site if they gave him a free one....they didn't solicit he offered ...one did it the other didn't.. .I'm in a good place right now with an utr lady...just wanted to get everybody elses perspective....
So far the only time I have been offered a free session was from a provider who was very new to the business. She was good, but was mostly using backpage then. After I met her I felt she would be a good addition to one of the more exclusive sites where you need to be invited. She told me that if I would help her out with that she would give me a free visit. I did send her the invite but noticed that after a month she still had not gotten on. I asked her why and she said she still needed help, but she also dropped off of backpage due to some of the problems that come with that. She was just using a mobile device at the time so that may have been part of the problem. Contacted her to set up a meeting and help her finish getting on the site, but she never got back to me. She still is not on that site she wanted to be on so bad. She's mostly using myproviderguide now. So I don't know if she forgot which guy I was or she didn't want to honor the free visit. Funny thing is, I had no intention of holding her to that. I just wanted to help her out. I would have either stopped by her place with a laptop and no session to help her get the computer work done or told her just knock off whatever she felt was fair.
So now I probably won't bother seeing her again plus she is not on the site she really wanted to get on. Oh well! That are way to many providers out that for me to play those little games. If you treat the ladies right they will treat you right, at least the ladies worth visiting will.
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Remember, when you are initially attracted to something you might find that "Your Mileage May Vary". Maybe she was more the other guy's taste or something. I saw a lady not all that long ago who in my opinion could pass as a Victoria Secret model. Yet, her looks ratings other places were not there....yet. As it turns out she had dropped about 20+ pounds. Even some of her ad photos still showed some of her old weight. She was really hot even with the 20+ pounds, but at 5'10" you could add an extra 30 to 40 pounds and she would be a curvy hot.
I have not reviewed her here yet because her current ad link does not qualify. She is also basically a refugee who was relying more on that other site that recently forced out of business. So once I get her added to one of the more exclusive sites or she gets her ads expanded to a qualifying link I will be reviewing her. I'm stingy with the 9 rating in looks because I also take the standard model height guidelines into account, this chick is a 9 now.
Then there is another lady who has a good review history on this site and a not so good review history on another site. I'm looking at these two sites and thinking WTF. This one had been on my radar for awhile so I finally decided I'm going form my own opinion soon. It should be interesting.
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RE: this - "...said he offered free pics/videos etc for the site if they gave him a free one..."
This seems outrageous to me. There is another site I'm on where this sort of thing is common too - guys will hit up the new girls & offer to take photos & 'introduce' the girl to their buddies if she gives him a free session/significantly reduced rate/bareback - and he may also throw in there that his buddies should get a discount too. If she refuses, he'll post her info & have his buddies all send her a message & then reply that her rate is too high. -_-
Most ladies will laugh and turn them down from what I've seen.... but there are some who are naive & trusting & besides, these types are pretty slick with the way they offer it & they make it sound like they can make the girl a ton of money, that all these guys respect their reviews & wait for him to review the new girls & whatever else. So for someone who is brand new to the biz, that might sound like a sweet deal.
I personally think it's manipulative. Nobody needs to take photos for a damned review, and once he has those photos you have no control over how they're used - I've seen a number of these uploaded to amateur porn sites - and you have no ability to watermark them with your name/contact info.
Call me a purist... but the review system should be reliable for everyone's sake. It should be a place where I can refer people to find more info & not have to worry about either a fake bad review posted or an inflated review that makes me sound like a totally different provider & then have people thinking I'll be different than I really am. I wish there were a place that I could respond & thank reviewers like they allow on yelp & some similar sites, but c'est la vie. I've been lucky in that the few fake reviews I've had posted, they've been taken down immediately after I reported them, so if you use the site like it's meant to be used I think it works pretty well for everyone.
There is only one way to "taint" the system and that is by getting stuck somewhere in between Vaginal and Anal intercourse.