Big + 1! Unless both parties agree to dick selfies. Lol.
Wanted to see provider and fellow hobbyists thoughts on ymmv, mainly
1. Providers is your menu the same for all hobbyists as long as they pass screening?
2. Do you ever push boundaries for your favorite regulars?
I bring this up because I was interested in seeing a fairly well reviewed provider,
who had good reviews except two lower reviews. Those reviews mentioned she did not dfk with
them and bbbj was very brief. This made me worry about ymmv. I contacted her directly and asked
what was on the menu. I asked if Russian was available, she said no. Then I replied that I saw it was mentioned
In one of the reviews she did russian. Then she replied fine, she doesn't mind russian. She goes onto to say
if she feels a connection sky is the limit. I ultimately chose not to see her and explained we
are donating for a service and the menu should not be determined if you find me attractive
or not. I understand if hygiene or attitude is an issue but those things should be caught on
screening. Thoughts?
If you're discussing sexual acts and how much you are paying her for them you are doing the same thing LE would do and a smart provider will have nothing to do with you.
She doesn't have to think you are the hottest guy around, if you are clean and respectful you'll usually have a great time without discussing specifics.
If however you are a disrespectful gross smelly slob you can hardly blame her for not wanting to give you the best blowjob you have ever had. YMMV should be expected, they are women not machines or sex slaves locked in a dungeon for your pleasure and you will usually get the level of service you deserve from them.
on who the girl is. Cleanliness/hygiene is a major key for me.
oth parties bring something to the table. If you bring negativity, are rude, disrespectful of course I am not going to give you the same experience as someone who is polite, well-groomed and respectful.
Chemistry also counts for A LOT but cannot be determined beforehand.
Madison
1. Providers is your menu the same for all hobbyists as long as they pass screening?
2. Do you ever push boundaries for your favorite regulars?
I bring this up because I was interested in seeing a fairly well reviewed provider,
who had good reviews except two lower reviews. Those reviews mentioned she did not dfk with
them and bbbj was very brief. This made me worry about ymmv. I contacted her directly and asked
what was on the menu. I asked if Russian was available, she said no. Then I replied that I saw it was mentioned
In one of the reviews she did russian. Then she replied fine, she doesn't mind russian. She goes onto to say
if she feels a connection sky is the limit. I ultimately chose not to see her and explained we
are donating for a service and the menu should not be determined if you find me attractive
or not. I understand if hygiene or attitude is an issue but those things should be caught on
screening. Thoughts?
Completely agree with you. I was just saying if a client is polite, hygienic, well groomed, do people think it is wrong a provider holds back on certain things she because of reasons beyond the client's control (I.e. might not find him attractive). It was just a turn off
that a service was not offered until she was called out on it...one thing im sure both parties hate is bartering.
Both parties bring something to the table. If you bring negativity, are rude, disrespectful of course I am not going to give you the same experience as someone who is polite, well-groomed and respectful.
Chemistry also counts for A LOT but cannot be determined beforehand.
Madison
1. Providers is your menu the same for all hobbyists as long as they pass screening?
2. Do you ever push boundaries for your favorite regulars?
I bring this up because I was interested in seeing a fairly well reviewed provider,
who had good reviews except two lower reviews. Those reviews mentioned she did not dfk with
them and bbbj was very brief. This made me worry about ymmv. I contacted her directly and asked
what was on the menu. I asked if Russian was available, she said no. Then I replied that I saw it was mentioned
In one of the reviews she did russian. Then she replied fine, she doesn't mind russian. She goes onto to say
if she feels a connection sky is the limit. I ultimately chose not to see her and explained we
are donating for a service and the menu should not be determined if you find me attractive
or not. I understand if hygiene or attitude is an issue but those things should be caught on
screening. Thoughts?
There are no guarantees for how a session will go. She doesn't owe you the same experience as the last guy, but if you pick your provider carefully and are a good client she will want to send you away happy and she'll do what see can to make that happen.
If you look for the cheapest provider you can find you can expect up-sells and negotiating, both big turn offs for me, but most good GFE provider's rates are all inclusive (excepting greek which may be extra).
Like others have said chemistry, safety and comfort can play heavily in whether or not a provider will give you 110% of her effort, or only 50%. I personally never rely or even read most reviews since they don't contain much of anything relevant to what my experience might be like. I've got to assume that if we click & the chemistry is right, then she'll be inspired to relax with me and enjoy our session and maybe push the envelope a bit. But for many providers it will be uncharted territory, so I would expect that they might be just as nervous as I am!
do they catch if your a cheese dick on screening?
Big + 1! Unless both parties agree to dick selfies. Lol.
There are no guarantees. And based on your post, most providers will hang up on you if you persist on asking those types of questions.