i completely agree. and just to be clear, she was not offering, nor was i looking for it. and if there is a provider who offers bbfs to some, i would not see her even if i covered up. to risky in my book.
hi guys i have a question that i was hoping the lovely ladies of this board could help me with.
first a little bit about myself. i am a extremely low volume hobbyist. mostly due to me being in a long term relationship and partly due to my current financial situation. i like to hobby but it is few and far between. it is usually a special treat i give to myself. that being said i take time to find the right provider so that we both would enjoy our time. when i find one that i click with, she is the first one i call when i am ready to treat myself.
I contacted my fav earlier this summer and she said she was out of the country on an "exclusive" she offered to set me up with some of her friends that she knew i would be into but i declined. if figured what the heck, i can wait, i am not in a hurry. i am after all low volume.
I contacted her again and she said she is still on the " exclusive"
so i guess my question is what is an "exclusive" actually like for a provider? is it preferred? i imagine the hobbyist books the providers entire time. do you guys stay together for the duration? do providers and hobbyist get tested and engage in activity with no covers? ultimately, spending so much "exclusive" time together, do feelings get hurt when the arrangement runs it course? how log do they tend to last? i guess i could ask questions about this for hours.
thank you guys
just curious
You could. Or you could just ask her yourself what she means. "Exclusive" could be different for every provider.
You could also invest your time in finding someone else who suits your fancy.
Bp, she responded to him twice. That means she respected him and maybe liked him to volunteer that much. I had a fav I saw at least 8x in a month in different cities and she never volunteered that info when the time came to do so. Play nice and if you have nothing positive to say maybe don't reply.
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Trying to generalize an encounter, exclusive or not, won't allay your concerns. Some people take exclusivity in a direction that is comfortable between one another. I've done the exclusive part and it was wonderful for the time spent.
You should contact the lady in question and find out what it means to be exclusive. Maybe it'll mean something totally different than some of the preconceived notions that you listed in your post. It could be a mutually beneficial arrangement, whatever the terms might be. If a favorite went on an exclusive arrangement, I would wish her well and find an alternative until she returns (if she returns). I've known some wonderful ladies who never returned, while others regaled their adventures upon their return.
Just know, in some weird way, she was exclusive with you on your dates with her. What you did with her during your dates should be enough, especially if she denies you a reason or defined rules when you ask her.
-popo
100% with you and weldone as you put it beautifully
Sx
The OP asked if eventually there can be no covers and everyone is tested.
The answer based on limited info that I've gotten is that the woman will not do that and will insist on covers. I have read one post that one woman did allow it without covers one time but the man changed his mind before doing it, thinking it was risky.
Bottom line is that BB is rare and shouldn't be sought even though Mr. Johnson disagrees.
"BB is rare"
False.
And we can't speculate about the terms or circumstances. It typically means that the lady in question has agreed to spend an extended time with the gentleman in an exclusive setting (she does not see anyone else for that period of time). I guess it is comparable to a SD/SB relationship with the difference of a pre determined expiration date in some cases.
Thank you guys for the responses. to clarify, i was just looking for some perspective on how "exclusives" work from the provider point of view.
ßëå±põë± you offered some good insight.
BigPapasan, you could be right. she is a very sweet lady and could possibly have decided that our time together has come to an end. however i have to believe based on our time together she would be more honest and just say so.
Angel4Kisses you are also right in that i should continue the search for some one new, and you do fit the bill 
hopefully you will be available when i am ready to hobby again.
question1 i agree and would never request bb. i was just curious as to what goes on in order to better understand the hobby and the risks involved.
Questions still loom but more about the "exclusive" arrangements in general less about this specific one. maybe its just my semi-subconscience desire to be affluent enough to afford one.
again thank you
I was seeing a young lady on a regular bases. She then found a sugar daddy that was going to take care of her. So she stopped seeing me and bascially got out of the biz, she canceled her ads, disconnected her working phone just fell out of the scene.She became "exclusive" to her daddy.
Now this became a problem for me as she was my weed girl so she wasn't allowed to see me if I needed a purchase...total bummer.
But now, the old dude dumped her and she's back seeing me and now I'm higher then a kite!!!!
True story...I don't make this shit up, pally.
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I have had exclusive relationships in the past & it is bf/gf, or sugar daddy type. There is an arrangement where both needs are met financially & fun, so both parties are happy. I am sure some providers allow BBFS, but I would not recommend it & if she is offering it to you, do you truly believe your the only one?
STD's are real GYT.
No Glove. No love!
i completely agree. and just to be clear, she was not offering, nor was i looking for it. and if there is a provider who offers bbfs to some, i would not see her even if i covered up. to risky in my book.