I mean what could possibly go wrong at this point of the discussion?
I'm really disappointed in seeing a new review for me saying he was unhappy with my looks and body.
I don't mind the low scores but for the life of me i can not recall ever seeing this person.
I know i'm not a 10 but i'm incredibly hurt as i pride myself on cleanliness and trying to fulfill a dates fantasy and make sure they have a good time.
Do i contact him to try and make it up and find out if and when this date actually happened or do i contact TER to find out if this review is fake.
Sad heart, kisses blondiegirlxxxx.
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NOBODY makes him HAPPY!!. 
Apparently EVERYBODY has poor hygiene, NOBODY looks like their pics., and EVERYONE is Overweight...
Hmmmmmm, OK...LOL
If you truly believe you did NOT see him, contact TER.....There is a way to proove it....This happens alot.
If you DID see him, just ignore his review (tough to do, I know), and don't let him ruin your week!!...Continue being the best provider YOU know how to be, and THAT will be good enough!. 
Have a terrific week!.
Kayla~ xoxo
I had seen your recent BP ad, and I looked you up on TER. After seeing the one bad review, I decided to not contact you. For that I am sorry. I love your passion and pride. I have given a few bad reviews, but I do so only when I feel a provider earned a bad rating. I have added you my favorite list, and I hope you will one day see me, and I will be able to decide for myself. I do find his history of poor ratings an indication of who he is - or maybe who he is not!
Aw don't be upset, his review history shows he's hard to please.
You can try contacting him to ask him where and when he saw you and if he doesn't come through ask TER to help out.
Your site clearly has untouched pictures, not sure why he was disappointed.
Sounds like he needs a new hobby xx
attention to him or his ratings. His average rating is a 6 and he bitches about every providor he sees. It is obvious that he has a thing about talking crap and putting down women in general. I would not give his opinion any credibility. Don't waste your time on this loser, and keep moving forward.
Don't let one bad score get you down ... Look at your other scores they are fabulous..... You can't please everyone you see.. I got a 5/5 from someone complaining I was too tall in the review when all my ADS state I'm a tall ASIAN provider... Keep smiling & being fabulous!!!!
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Sorry to hear that blondegirl I JUST had the same thing happen to me, but I did see him. The thing is he had no special requests like, "Make sure your as beautiful as Jessica Alba, or Megan Fox", which is what type of girl he's after. I'm cute but geez us we can't all be that way. He also never said anything to me when he was here. We talked, we played, he came then was on his way. It wasnt until I had to find out from his review. He's a newbie so not all bad, but so am I. Anyway it hurt really bad cause like you, I pride myself in what I do. In the years that I've been doing this that was my FIRST bad review, EVER! It was shocking more than anything. It's a long road ahead to come back from something like this. It's hurt my business a lot since it went up a week ago!! I used to get emails everyday, now I'm lucky to get 1 or 2 a week! Hang in there girl, love your job and give it your all! Kisses
Jenny Mini
All of us guys are just lucky you providers don't rate us. Imagine a guy having to face, small penis, pops prematurely, over-weight, dumb, smells like bad BO, sweats like a pig, bald, clothes don't fit, lame, but thinks he's the worlds best fuck.
Screw the bad review. This hobby is great. You get to be with women that in real life you'd have no shot at. Guys should rate the women versus what they could shag on their own. I'm guessing almost every provider would be a 10.
If your verification picks up that the guy gives out lousy reviews, blow him off.
Actually they have a new site for that
Iv never tried it but iv heard about the new client review rating
still waiting for him to provide the exact date time location and confirmation email of our supposed encounter. i have no record of ever seeing someone with his handle and i keep detailed records of all my dates. i read over all his reviews and in every one he he says the provider is either old, overweight or smelled. how can that be? like someone else said he is either the most unlucky guy in la or just a guy who does not like or respect women very much and gets off on trashing them.
Wow yea, keep up the research and find out the TRUTH. You are already trying to make this up to him, even though there is no record of him!?! You are a honest working girl that obviously knows and cares about whats going on in her pleasure/business life. You'll get through this and be better for it, (even if did, or didn't see you). It he is the unluckiest guy cause I've seen alotta hotties on sites like City-Source, this guy needs to do research just like every other guy does. Ladies should also do their research so they dont end up with a guy like this (I need to take my own advice, hahaha). All I can say is Good Luck to the other women he may see in the future.
Continue being your beautiful, clean, self and the right guys will find you. Like sand through the hourglass these are the days of and escorts life..... MUAH
Jenny Mini
Uh-oh. I think my rates are going up😁
Do you really think the girls don't share some of this info if asked? It's not different from one of us guys PMing to ask about more details on a girl someone's reviewed. I do that all the time. Particularly if she's been reviewed by someone I know/trust.
DkG
predicted the present. anyone with that history gave you fair warning to avoid. maybe it's cheap tuition.
No way would i ever knowingly have seen a guy like that based on his reviews alone. through my research i was able to find someone who was able to provide me with his board handle to another board along with his name and two phine numbers and i searched my entire contact list, all my emails, my phone log and my appointment book and none of his info came up anywhere. i have no record of ever seeing anybody with his info.
I don't mind the low scores but for the life of me i can not recall ever seeing this person.
I know i'm not a 10 but i'm incredibly hurt as i pride myself on cleanliness and trying to fulfill a dates fantasy and make sure they have a good time.
Do i contact him to try and make it up and find out if and when this date actually happened or do i contact TER to find out if this review is fake.
Sad heart, kisses blondiegirlxxxx.
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How current are your pics? Your P411 pic shows a date from 9-14-13. Alot of girls use old pics because
they have either gained weight or something else. Or body is no longer like the pics
You can put your BIG BOY PANTIES on, and respond "HERE".
This is called a Discussion Board, where.....Ya know.....We have DISCUSSIONS.......Openly..
Sometimes it can get a little heated, but we are all Adults here (well, most of us), and can AGREE to DISAGREE.
Nighty night.
MelB
Oh so the string of good reviews i got from jan through may were all lying and the latest reviewer is telling the truth. ok ruaturtle whatever you say
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You can't take a honest review if in fact what the reviewer is claiming that your older than listed and the pics are old cause she is heavier in person
What do you know turtle you have never met me in person and for your info i still have no record of ever even seeing this guy. through my research i was given his handle to another board by someone here along with his phone numbers and i went through my contacts and all my emails and my call history with texts and my entire appointment book for the year and nowhere did i find any of his info. fyi my profile says i am 41-45 and i had ter change my profile accordingly. i will be glad to prove it to you at the mert and greet and then maybe you will shut up
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You are so full of it. my profile says i am 41-45 and that is what i am. go to the meet and great and i will prove to you how old i am and then maybe you will shutup
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Both Rua and Blondie have requested an invite to the July 15 LA Meet and Greet.
Hell, I will introduce u to each other.
Fair?
Good solution, very diplomatic. Might be the one of the highlights of the meet. Could go well, or could go epic! Damn I'm sorry I won't be there.
good solution bond. i will be sure and bring my id which will show that i am between 41-45 just like my profile says too. i have nothing to hide.
I have no problem with that!
don't let him get you down on the review ,, I have one that I can't get even remember who he is
gave me 5 '5 when I ask where he saw me he name the city but said my private venue
witch in the city he said he saw me ( I don't have a private VENUE in said city )
and he used a alias handle at that ,, no one makes him happy
and he seems to see ladies who have low scores as it is and then he gives them lower scores
Like I away's say can't make every one happy and one bad review not going to make a differences
with a lot of outstanding ones ....
Have a nice week .. Gina
I mean what could possibly go wrong at this point of the discussion?
and drawing attention to questionable review the proper action was to have contacted TER to explain to them your concerns about the authenticity of this review. They have a process in place to resolve such disputes. If the reviewer can not prove he saw you then the review would be removed and he may face other sanctions. There is a process in place if you care follow it.
I fail to understand why the lynch mob is out after Rua just because , rather than join the mob, he raised a question or two.
By now I would have expected some of your satisfied clients , who I am sure are plentiful , would have stepped forward to testify about their own experiences.
I don't mind the low scores but for the life of me i can not recall ever seeing this person.
I know i'm not a 10 but i'm incredibly hurt as i pride myself on cleanliness and trying to fulfill a dates fantasy and make sure they have a good time.
Do i contact him to try and make it up and find out if and when this date actually happened or do i contact TER to find out if this review is fake.
Sad heart, kisses blondiegirlxxxx.
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Ruaturtle can ask any question he wants, but he chose to ask one that wasn't necessary and was actually quite rude, so he got spanked, big deal, hardly a lynch mob on his case.
Blondie or any other girl can post a question regarding a review, hell guys come on here and post negative comments about girls profiles all the time, it's also clear that she posted with a good heart and good intent.
And regarding your last sentence, wow, first thing tomorrow i will go on a squirrel hunt for the squirrel that stole your nuts.
Ruaturle is a respected reviewer and member of this community . Unlike some carpetbaggers he is a consistent contributor to this board. Unlike the sheep who have no minds of their own he did not follow the flock but instead asked a reasonable question. You don't like it tough luck . I doubt he is going to book you so you can have the opportunity to spank him.
This is a hobbyists discussion and review board and the ladies are free to post but not attempt to intimidate or badger reviewers every time they don't like a review. TER has a process to address disputed reviews.The DB is not the appropriate place for that because it risk placing the provider in a position of unnecessarily being scrutinised and judged .
Blondie or any other girl can post a question regarding a review, hell guys come on here and post negative comments about girls profiles all the time, it's also clear that she posted with a good heart and good intent.
And regarding your last sentence, wow, first thing tomorrow i will go on a squirrel hunt for the squirrel that stole your nuts.
Err i said Ruaturtle can ask any question he wants, it's how he asked it that wasn't necessary, did you not read what i said.
And i mentioned nowhere in my post about wanting to spank him.
As for your statement of ladies attempting to badger or intimidate hobbyists regarding reviews, where on earth does Blondie come across as intimidating?
Your last statement is appalling on your previous post and was clearly a dig at Blondie and well you know it.
The problem here is that some men don't like it when they don't get to rule this board as they see fit and some men live this industry on a daily basis and it eats into their soul.
Some of you can also not handle the fact that not all girls will kiss ass to get a date.
Would i have a problem accepting a date from yourself or Ruaturtle, hell no, because 1. We all have off days where sometimes we say something maybe we shouldn't. 2. I don't hold grudges and certainly do not go to bed thinking about what happens on this board.
In fact a client who i had never seen was complete idiot and i told him to f**k off, i ended up seeing him and it was the best sex i've probably ever had and now we're really good friends. I don't judge a book by it's cover and those who do, well, that's up to them
"Carpetbaggers?" Jeeesus...
You know this board/website wouldn't even exist without ladies? I swear, I wish some of you would just join a private men's club! Then you'd be free from women's opinions, something so many of you so clearly want.
its just one dude's opinion. even if fake. with all your other reviews who the hell is going to care about this one dudes review. its your overall rating that counts. any idiot who sees just one review bad or good and decides to see or not to see the girl is retarded anyway and you don't want that type of client.
everyone has haters and lovers. no one is perfect.
just do your thing and enjoy your regulars and people who appreciate you
I read the review when it was first posted and instantly thought of it as an abnormality. I never base my choices on a single review. Toss out the highest and the lowest and average out the rest. I've met some wonderful ladies here that way and will continue to do so.
I agree with tossing out the outliers because as we all know YMMV. Especially when I look at the reviewer's history for a feel of how they review. If there is a shared encounter and she gets slammed in the review, I know he's an idiot and has no credibility.
If the majority of a lady's reviews are in the same ball park, an established history, photos that give me a good view, I'm going to make up my own decision. Especially where I see some attractive photos like blondiegirl's. IMHO, she's quite attractive and would be on my "to see" list if I lived in the area.
The guy obviously isn't easily pleased. Or he writes reviews on only those he isn't happy with.
I wouldn't worry about it. Any client that is gonna take one look at that review and not see you based on a guy who tends to give 5s to 7s as a rule probably isn't worth seeing, anyway.
There are things to worry about, and things not to worry about. Not all opinions matter equally. Clearly this one shouldn't.