Scared half to death til a Puerto Rican gal so pretty it made me hard in ten seconds took my hand. Five minutes late i was done! LOL
I always find it interesting to hear 'first provider' stories.
My first was, well, forgettable. Back then, I didn't know about TER or any other resources - I just found an 'adult services' section of a local paper, and called someone whose ad sounded interesting. She was young, she was pretty, and she was ... not really into it. The first time almost wound up being the last.
Then I found TER, and met some really awesome women who rocked my world. A number of them are retired now, one (sadly) is deceased, and a handful still participate, though it's been so long I doubt they remember me. Still, overall it's been an enjoyable experience, and I've even gotten to know (and be friends with) some of the women outside the hobby (though it was always a laugh when someone would ask "how do you guys know each other?"). I haven't participated in quite a while - my activity is basically vicarious - but there's one or two ladies I'm interested in meeting....if schedules permit. I imagine it'll be as fun as I remember it being.
Scared half to death til a Puerto Rican gal so pretty it made me hard in ten seconds took my hand. Five minutes late i was done! LOL
She was in her 30s. I was nervous as hell. It was a cheap motel. It was like having sex for the first time in that it was equal parts apprehension, excitement, anticipation, and then a little disappointment.
And you did it again and figured out how to make the experience better.
My first is still around but not in the business anymore. She shared with me her name and posts regularly on Facebook. I jokingly inquired about another session and she said anytime, just ask.
One person from 2-3 years ago that I contacted but had a last minute scheduling conflict I recently recognized as a non-famous musician. She's pregnant with her first child. Wish her the best of luck even though I'll never wish it to her in person or in writing.