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Womens 'Hot Spots'?
Julienne See my TER Reviews 996 reads
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A client recently asked me about ‘hot-spots’ on a women’s body.
He said that he oftentimes feels insecure about doing it ‘right’ for a woman and about satisfying a woman sexually. I replied that this exactly is a huge problem for many men: the worry to do the ‘right thing’ for a woman inside the bedroom. These worries are not limited at all to erection problems only, I believe.
I further replied that, unless you are involved in Sex -or Medical Research I would highly recommend to forget about the complication of a ‘theoretical approach’ to hot spots on a women's body. EVERY area of the body is arousable, as it "builds" the road to orgasm, the final destination of each and every erotic encounter. Hot spots, i.e. breast or clitoris, vary from woman to woman a bit. The G-spot really exists physiologically, a compound of interwoven nerve endings at the anterior wall of the vagina, similarly functioning as the glans of the penis The sexual openness, the relations ship a woman has with her OWN body, namely her sexuality, will determine how much she can  enjoy and whether she becomes stimulated by being touched in different areas of her body. A woman could have 100 G-Spots, but if she is inhibited in her sexuality it will not make a difference. What matters is the partner she is with, her comfort with her OWN body, with her woman hood and her sexuality. And then there is her partner, whereby manyt men I met are worried about performing well and being a good lover.  If they are not worried about it openly, they are worried about it chronically-subconsciously, somewhat. I further said: you just need to go into the situation with your self- confidence as a man, as a lover and you will not have to ‘theoretically’ approach it. Instead you shall approach it with your senses, your intuition, your erotic desire and with your enjoying of it, while observing her and being freely guided by her expressions, her physical reactions and her responses of sexual enjoyment! ANY too much of anticipation and ‘programing’ kills the free joy and inhibits anybody’s reactions, I repeat, anybody’s

Completely agree, love nothing more than being kissed and gently bitten on my neck, hands slowly stroking my skin, argh cold shower needed.  

Too many men watch porn and think that's how it should be done, noooooooo it's not, that's how it's done when you're trying to sell the video.

A tip for the guys, if you are unsure on how you should lick a girls pussy (we all like it done differently) ask the girl to show you how they like it done by them licking and sucking on your finger first.

Seriously, this really works.

All donations for tip accepted :-P

Intimacy, whether as hobby or not, is all about mutual communication.  Everything else is religion.

Of your Finger. Because everyone is built different and have thousands of nerve endings.

All starting with sensations of the nerves on the tonque. Kissing I always say is the gateway to everything eles. Just touching anywhere like in Tantra or when you get a massage start to stimulate the senses. So just touching, licking everywhere slowly can lead to major explosions.

  But all women when it comes to the licking with the right pressure and long or short strokes and the rythym can be unpredictable. I think showing you on a finger sounds like a great idea. Thanks Shaunna good going!... Besides I like to suck and lick on fingers also.

   I just like to Lick and suck, and lick and suck, and more and more...just gets one more aroused!
Oh! better Go......."O"....... Have a great Day!

Damn this post got me worked up. Thanks Shaunna.

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