A client recently ask me whether or not it would be ‘normal’ to think about another partner while having sex with your spouse. He said that he entertained fantasies about another partner in all his longer relationships. I responded that I think it not only is normal, but that it also EXTREMELY COMMON, particularly in long time relations ships. When visiting escorts the memories, lets say experienced stimulation, of a hot encounter with a working lady transfers to the next sexual encounter with ones own long term partner. Most clients are married or have in a long term relationship, when visiting a working lady. Almost all of my clients emphasized that they love their partner, that they are happy or that they feel very comfortable in their relation ship. The only thing ‘missing’ is great sex. They are seeking the stimulation and that stimulation from the outside refreshes the relationship with their spouse, outside and inside the bedroom. This is not only my assumption, because it was reported to me by clients uncountable times. I believe it also has to do with an inner need ‘to break’ out of a so tightly ‘closed’ relationship for a short time, with all the safety of no ‘drama’ evolving from such an adventure.  
This is why escorts shall be considered ‘marriage rescuers’! Whatever stimulation helps your sex life to be good and enjoyable