Usually plays, Book of Mormon, or Lion King or whatever happens to hit me. Concerts on occasion, especially if I know they are a fan. Lotta lunches/dinners/coffee. On rare occasion sporting events. Supposed to go for massages (non erotic) with a great gal when I return to LA. Depends on the woman and our schedules.
Things I wonder while avoiding real work and staving off a mid-afternoon sleepiness...
Have any of you ladies ever called a gent to simply hang out? Say, for example, you see an event and think "Oh, that would be right up Bob's alley..." and then call him and invite him to go with you? How did it work out? Would you do it again?
Gents, has this ever happened to you? (I don't imagine that this goes the other way - i.e., guys call providers to simply hang out, but anything's possible)
I've had it happen a few times over the years, and even worked with providers in different senses (one, years ago, helped me set up my first website). Of course, with what I do, I sometimes get called to help fix messes (not criminal ones, though), but I don't mean that.
And those connections have been nice
I've been asked. The hang out/advice/assist with . . . but there have been demands on their or my time where one or the other had to cancel. Has always been by text msg. Even selling lil' sister's Girl Scout Cookies.
That's my experience,
Jonatha
Perhaps, because I see regulars repeatedly, and over months or years, I have cultivated a few (3) special friendships. Our off the clock meetings are purely platonic and usually involve lunch or coffee, a walk in the park or a walk by the beach. One lady, my first ATF and now retired, used to like to go to the movies.
Just friendship stuff. Surprisingly all 3 are foreign born. One, I love like a little sister..
It's nice to realize that some of the ladies see you as more than a guy with an envelope....
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yes --- if i have seen him and we have a good connection --- Lakers game -- or a movie
Usually plays, Book of Mormon, or Lion King or whatever happens to hit me. Concerts on occasion, especially if I know they are a fan. Lotta lunches/dinners/coffee. On rare occasion sporting events. Supposed to go for massages (non erotic) with a great gal when I return to LA. Depends on the woman and our schedules.