Huge waste of time! They think buying you dinner is being a sugar daddy! Are girls really that hungry?
Hello everyone! Here's a little background about me: I am a fairly new provider who visits Colorado a few times a year to meet friends.
Roughly around August, I discovered this "seeking arrangement" site and decided to give it a shot.I wrote a little paragraph describing what kind of guy I'd be interested in and posted some pictures. Having been in a mutually beneficial relationship before, I wanted to compare notes and see what an online-initiated arrangement would be like (I had met my SO out & about, not online). Mainly I was just curious to see what would happen.
I didn't end up even meeting with anyone from the site because there seemed to be waaaaayyy too much communication expected and I'm not one to have my phone in my hand constantly. Also, while all of these men claimed to want a somewhat independent woman with a life of her own, I got the vibe from some that they expected me to drop whatever I had going on just to accommodate their schedule. When I couldn't, suddenly I got snotty e-mails saying they had (miraculously) met someone else. Right Riiiiiiight!! (This one guy put me on hold to ask the waitress what the cheapest glass of house wine was--Keeping It Classy!!)
I laughed, accepted my experiment had failed and contacted admin to delete my profile. They NEVER did.I just checked again. Obviously they want to look like they have bajillions of available Sugar Babies to lure these guys into paying for memberships. This makes me so mad! Not only is it false advertising but my inbox is also getting spammed with messages from these dudes.
Their rules explicitly state that escorts should not offer their services on their site. The penalty for this is having your profile deleted (ooohhhhh!!). Is it shitty of me to just direct every guy that messages me to my Ad? I'll either get my profile (finally) removed, or maybe meet some new clients without having to beat around the bush. What do you guys think? Is that mean?
I've not yet tried the seeking arrangement thing, so I can't quite answer what the best course of action is. However, I have had "clients" attempt to convert me into a sugar babe after just a few sessions. As in, not pay me and just be friends. Especially here in denver.
I know 1 thing, this sleepy town is so dead. I'm one step away from walking away from this town. Just found out 1 of my regulars moved to Cali, and my normal Sunday regular stopped coming around. I'm down to 1 irregular regular, and barely no new appointments. Someone tell me it's not just me?
I have seen similar things happen with some escort sites that steal you info and list you. My advice would be to delie any photos you have there before canceling. Also, change your contact info there before canceling. Then it's sorta just a dead ad once you cancel. No longer your problem, if they do that shady business. Good luck!
There are many escorts on SA - Also, there are many escorts who have SD clients.
Personally, I do not like SA and other SB/SD websites. Too many expectations, too many fakes, and just a big waste of time.
Roughly around August, I discovered this "seeking arrangement" site and decided to give it a shot.I wrote a little paragraph describing what kind of guy I'd be interested in and posted some pictures. Having been in a mutually beneficial relationship before, I wanted to compare notes and see what an online-initiated arrangement would be like (I had met my SO out & about, not online). Mainly I was just curious to see what would happen.
I didn't end up even meeting with anyone from the site because there seemed to be waaaaayyy too much communication expected and I'm not one to have my phone in my hand constantly. Also, while all of these men claimed to want a somewhat independent woman with a life of her own, I got the vibe from some that they expected me to drop whatever I had going on just to accommodate their schedule. When I couldn't, suddenly I got snotty e-mails saying they had (miraculously) met someone else. Right Riiiiiiight!! (This one guy put me on hold to ask the waitress what the cheapest glass of house wine was--Keeping It Classy!!)
I laughed, accepted my experiment had failed and contacted admin to delete my profile. They NEVER did.I just checked again. Obviously they want to look like they have bajillions of available Sugar Babies to lure these guys into paying for memberships. This makes me so mad! Not only is it false advertising but my inbox is also getting spammed with messages from these dudes.
Their rules explicitly state that escorts should not offer their services on their site. The penalty for this is having your profile deleted (ooohhhhh!!). Is it shitty of me to just direct every guy that messages me to my Ad? I'll either get my profile (finally) removed, or maybe meet some new clients without having to beat around the bush. What do you guys think? Is that mean?
Huge waste of time! They think buying you dinner is being a sugar daddy! Are girls really that hungry?
The folks you were meeting from SA are salts, meaning they are salty, not sweet. As has been said, that's probably the case for most of the men on SA. Though it might be abrupt to initiate a conversation about what an arrangement may look like on the first date, if a gent isn't initiating or open to a conversation about it by the second date, run away!