does masturbating before a sexual encounter help, hurt, or not affect your performance when you get a lady and don't have to fly solo? I mean, are you more or less likely to be able to go for a couple of pops if you visit rosie and her five daughters about 12 hours or more beforehand? It has to take a certain amount of time for the body to refill the tanks, but does emptying them and letting the body work on refilling more frequently help get the juices flowing? Just wondering what impact it has on the prime time performance.
This subject comes up every few weeks. Try doing a search (see button at top). Bottom line, it depends on your age, physical condition, diet, etc.
Thanks. Nothing in the search on this board, but waaay back on the Erotic Highway board, LG addresses the question. For certain guys, she recommends laying off for 30 days basically, as I understand it, to mentally readjust.
Short version -- as you get older (or do more drugs, or get different types of stimulation), it just takes somewhat longer to get hard again. It isn't helped by "practicing"; instead, what that can do is take some of the edge off any initial nervousness you're feeling.
Remember that "performance" is a matter that goes well beyond "is it hard?" and "can you come in great gushers?". Once you get adjusted to thinking of it outside those terms, things will get much, much better, believe me.