wow, the job references is probably not the best as anyone could say anything. I would be very hesitant about not seeing someone without references. There are several things you could do if you are contacted by email...email me and i will send you the sites, also you might want to alert the moderators of the board...
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Okay so I have been in the hobby a few weeks... and I have been screening gentlemen by calling their job to confirm or either checking their reviews here or emailing a provider they have seen previously...now it was all going fine until I met a "hobbyist". He filled out the reservation page on my site and upon responding to him he he never hobbied before but I went ahead called his supposed "job" number and his secratery confirmed it was his office, etc. However when I went to meet him at his home I was highly suprised and upset to find that he was a card carrying memeber of law enforcement. I only received a fine when I went to court but I'm not a fan of jail and would like some advice on other screening techniques/ tips...maybe I'm not doing it or correctly or whatever the case. I would love some feedback. Thanks you girls and guys in advance!
wow, the job references is probably not the best as anyone could say anything. I would be very hesitant about not seeing someone without references. There are several things you could do if you are contacted by email...email me and i will send you the sites, also you might want to alert the moderators of the board...
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They know that providers use work numbers to screen, so they are finding ways to work around it.
One question:
Was this work place a regular office or a phony line that led to another phone at the police dept? That is, could you find a listing for the business in the yellow pages?
If so, then it shows the police are now recrutiing legitimate businesses to act as decoys. That is a troubling turn of events.
If you get the name of a business and it is not listed on the phone book, I would assume you are dealing with LE or a time waster.
both of you reviews are from first time reviewers. It is not unheard of for LE to write false reviews in order to gain access and trust trust in the community.
If you haven't yet, take a close at your reviews. If you recognize the encounters, great! But if one of them is totally unfamiliar, you may want to report it to [email protected], or post a problem.
Just a thought.
jazz32
If someone contacts me and says he has never hobbied before, therefore, no references, he will have to supply me his FULL name and then I use CISWorldWide to do a cross reference check and background report. If that doesnt satisfy me, I go with my gut instinct, which is usually right on target. If my spidy sense is already itched, then safe to say I politely decline and refer them to an agency or something so when they DO have some references under their belt they are welcome to call me again.
You can ask them if they are members on any other type of review/discussion boards, if they are, have them email you from one of those sites or send you a link with their user handle. If they don't and say they just "lurk" then usually a dead giveaway they arent who they say they are, if they "lurk" but have seen someone in the past, then BE SURE and ask who they have seem and contact them before accepting.
No amount of $$ is worth a rap sheet, or worse. You have got to use your gut instinct when accepting ANYONE in this business, whether it be a seasoned hobbyist, or someone "just starting out".
Both Guys are Newbies and the escort is also very new. When I see reviews of a new escort and both are written by newbies I run in the other direction. Sorry you got caught but you didn't exactly do all your homework. Be careful as you now have a record . Next time around may not be just as easy to walk away. And this will follow you from job to job with every back ground check thats done. Kisses Haley