Newbie - FAQ

Sounds like you're ok so far...
Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 1242 reads
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You've done your homework, and have your meeting set...now go enjoy yourself!  From what you've written, LE risk appears to be practically zero.  You have a far greater risk of having a car wreck or getting a speeding ticket on the way there than getting caught up in a sting.  Good luck, and go have some fun!

Well, I've done my research on a provider who has good reviews on TER (10 reviewers since August, 2 with 11 reviews of other providers, and 1 with over 20). I've set up a time to meet, but I'm getting cold feet after some of the discussions regarding "No Safe Approach." Especially since the provider has given me an address already." Again, I'm new at this and if I am arrested for a felony, I could lose my license to practice in my field. I hate feeling like I need allot of hand-holding, but are there any further recommendations before I decide to take the plunge?

'JudgeDredd' gave you the skinny earlier that it is NOT a felony.

 With the review history enjoyed by the providers you mentioned, and the fact that setting up stings and busting hobbyists is so low on the police priority scale; you have a better chance of winning lotto than you do getting popped for a MISDEMEANOR solicitation charge.

 Now trim your pubes, grow some stones, and get out there and hobby.

Thanks for the kick in the butt. I'm a bit scared because, prviously I called an ad for a massage, and when I showed up at the address given, there was no such place. Called again, same thing. I thought I just didn't understand the thick accent, and tried a third time, which led me to a residence. I was a bit confused, but I had had massages in a private residence before, so I knock. When inside, there were two girls there. I soon found out that the fee had increased substantially, and soon found out why. I was going to get much more than a massage. It was a very pleasant and welcomed suprise, but right after I popped the LE showed up. I was plenty scared, but played it cool and stuck to my story that I had paid the higher price for a 2 hour session, and that I had only been there for 20 mins. They let me off with a warning but there was another guy that was being held after I left. The number of personel they had there, to come down on these two providers was very intimidating. Hence, my caution.

However, once again, thanks for the kick in the but. Reminds me of my high school football coach.

You've done your homework, and have your meeting set...now go enjoy yourself!  From what you've written, LE risk appears to be practically zero.  You have a far greater risk of having a car wreck or getting a speeding ticket on the way there than getting caught up in a sting.  Good luck, and go have some fun!

let's look at the situation in its totality. You have done your research (and it sounds like you have done it quite extensively) and found a provider who is not only well reviewed but the hobbyists who have reviewed her have credibility as well. This is as close to a "safe" situation as you will find in this hobby. You have been led to the proverbial water, only you can take a drink. The time to take your first sip was yesterday.

I WOULD NOT worry about the provider giving you an address. I have had several sessions where a provider, once I set up the appointment, gave me a complete address (street number, room number) all on the first call. No problems.

As a newbie today, you have a tremendous advantage over the rest of us who began hobbying before TER, and before the internet. We didnt have reviews and discussions boards to rely on; only a telephone number in the phone book or sex magazine. Without any background information on the ladies, it was much more likely to encounter rip-offs and LE threats. But here's the good news: We all survived to tell you about it!

Good luck and happy hobbying



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The bottom line is any experience is going to better than a lame regular woman on a date or a wife ugh. Lets face it a girlfriend isnt going to give you what you want when you want it and the amount of junk you have to go thru to possibly get laid is more stress than any research you will have to do weeding out etc. here so relax and enjoy. Or you can spend 2 hours at a retaurant and then a lame movie with no clue if you will get any.

It will be all ok.  And besides well-reviewed, independent providers are not worth arresting except for a small town.  LE tends to go after the CL-ers or agencies, it looks better and it's an easier catch.

And it's not a felony, it's a misdemeanor that you can plead down given that you have a clean prior record and can be erased once you enter a plea bargain that you will remain "good" for an amount of time.

Again it's not a felony, and as always hobby safe!

Solana

Here's a safer approach.  Arrange to meet your dream girl at a bar somewhere for drinks, arrange to pay her for her time at the bar as your companion.  There is no law against exchanging money for conversation.  Congress does it all the time.

Be sure both parties are clear what you are paying for.  No wink, wink.

Then meet her, enjoy your chat. Then if you two hit it off and decide to go do something else somewhere else there's no law broken, technically.  There's no law against dating a hooker off duty.  

They can bust you for anything of course, but getting a conviction is a whole different story - and people respond to personals all day long legally all over the internet.

Basically if LE wants to assign a whole team to protect a decoy havig conversation in a bar, then wants to follow you to an unknown location, and somehow try to entrap you into exchanging money for sex - then honey you are screwed...

Giggle,
TS Jamie  :-)
PS - Don't call me for bail if this doesn't work...

I'm fairly new at this and have the same fears you do about LE since having a "criminal" record can screw your life with future employers.

I basically stick with independent providers who work out of their home or hotel. Agencies are sometimes targeted by LE and the owners of these agencies can give up their client lists if busted by LE (DC Madam).

I don't worry when with an independent since they are so low beneath the RADAR screen of LE.

Enjoy yourself,

I may have given bad advice in my suggestion above.

I received an e-mail from a girl who was busted in essentially the same situation I described - after having dinner with a "gentleman" and going to a room and essentially being entrapped.

So basically if you are targeted they are going to get you and the only thing you can do is have a good lawyer.

Or move to Canada...  see you there.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

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