Ok, im looking for something really specific when looking for a provider. I really want them to be my perfect body type and everything. I have been looking around TER for a while and found a couple candidates but some of them haven’t been reviewed in a while. So my question is when a provider doesn’t have a review in a while should you just assume they have left the business? How much time has passed since the last review before you just figure they don’t work anymore? I ask because I have seen some providers with 1 year between reviews and others I have called when they had a review a week ago and the phone is disconnected. I really don’t want to start calling people who have the unfortunate luck of having an ex-providers phone number and have them call the phone company or worse LE because people keep calling asking for “Julie” or whatever.
Girls fade in and out of this business quite a bit. Check for the web address on her profile. If it doesn't say "report new website" that means she has an active website or ad running somewhere. Try calling the number once. If she doesn't return the call I would assume she isn't currently working or isn't seeing new clients and move on. Just a thought, perfection doesn't really exist in life or in this hobby. There are many terrific ladies out there who may rock your world even if they are not your vision of a perfect ten.
My last review was all the way back in July, even though I have been as busy as always. Sometimes it just works that way. A gap in reviews does not necessarily mean a lady has stopped working altogether. It may be that she has decided to take some time off, or she may only be seeing established friends, or it may just be luck of the draw that none of the gentleman who have seen her are review writing fellows.
This is a topic that has come up a few times, and as I have said in other times - guys write a review, even if you feel you aren't adding anything new to what has already been said. After 3 months, I'm seeing a few e-mails from friends asking if I've stopped providing, and when my next review is posted, I will certainly get a few e-mails saying "Good to see you back" even though I was never gone LOL
I've been known to "update" a review of a favorite lady or two if no one has written one in a while just to keep her name current.
I just did that this past week. In my case, she'd dropped UTR for a while, so I was glad to help announce her "return".
I agree that the way a provider acts makes up for any lack of looks she might have compared to a perfect looking one. Lets face it even the hottest girlfriend you could date in mainstream society isnt going to be any good in bed or if she is it will only last a short while until she has you whipped.
thanks guys and girls, i appreciate the help