Ladies-
Let me start by saying each provider is absolutely entitled to her own screening process and I appreciate the level of comfort that has to be established before meeting a new client. That said, I am curious about a couple things. First - why do some ladies not accept TER white listings as a reference? I feel almost silly asking to be white listed as it seems more and more it isn't a viable source of screening for many ladies. Second, I have recently been told that despite my several white listings, and offering of many recent and well known providers as reference, I couldn't be screened as I wasn't a member of P411. So the question is, if I provide well known references that will "vouch" for me (and I'm talking about several, not just one or two) that I have seen within the last 3 months, what more security does a girl get from me being a P411 member? Thanks in advance for the feedbackSome girls are comfortable with whitelisting and some are not. That applies to all areas of screening.
Of course, and truthfully I have no issue with some ladies not trusting WL as a reliable reference. I would like to understand why that is but that's just out of curiosity.
In any case, does anyone know how there is more security in a P411 account than providing a half dozen recent and well known providers with websites as reference? I'm contemplating getting a P411 but the charge for the service on my CC isn't all that appealing.
The vast majority of ladies here do not require p411...meaning that in addition to p411, they offer alternatives to p411 for screening their clients. If you have a chorus of glowing references, there's no reason to deal with p411, UNLESS...there is a specific lady in particular that you crave, and she only accepts p411. Perhaps she prefers not to deal with contacting other ladies one by one to check refs when p411 sort of manages that process for her, all with a security level that a WL does not match.
As you acknowledge it's all up to the lady, and whether it makes her comfortable. You ask a fair question. The simple answer is that is how she wants it. Good luck!
I like P411 for convenience. You will be annoyed your 1st month when you hear back from ladies "your P411 account is too new, can you please send me provider reference"
But once you're established it is much better. No more wondering if your references will respond timely. And it is more convenient for your references--they ok you once rather than having to respond to emails about you.
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