Identify ladies you would like to see on Eros or Cityvibe then check for reviews on TER. You could also PM another hobbyist in the same locale and ask for info.
Is there any measure of how risky it is for certain listings to call or schedule with non-reviewed providers?
I know CL is pretty rotten and full of ROBs and LE, so I stay clear of it. What about Cityvibe, or Eros or any other sites I don't know of?? If you would choose to see a non-reviewed lady from which listing would she most likely come from?
I know some ladies choose not to be reviewed, so obviously there are providers out there worth seeing who have no reviews.
Thanks.
For me at my level of experience- I fail on both of what I consider the necessary things to be in force to see an unreviewed provider- so I won't do it. My minimum criteria is two reviews, at least one from someone who has reviewed many times, but I for the most part, I only see ladies with five or more reviews and at least two of them from someone with many reviews. Their are so many well reviewed great ladies out there, that I just don't see the sense in risking an unreviewed one. What I do though is make note of the one I am interested in and wait a couple months watching for reviews. If they are that hot, they will get reviewed. Interestingly, two of those on my list reviewed off my list after reading the reviews.
Here is what I think it would take to see an unreviewed lady:
1. your willing to accept risk of being busted- if being busted won't be marriage ending, career ending and you can accept it- then if the next item is also in tact go- for it
2. Many of the experienced posters talk about "spidey sense"- if you are experienced enough to tell from the phone conversation that they are not le, and you feel experienced enough to case out the situation on arrival for suspicious things (cars with mult antennas, cars watching the entrance with one or two people sitting in them, etc)
First, ask them if they have any references from either other providers who are reviewed and/or hobbyists who are known on the boards whom you can then PM and get an OK on them.
Second, if they have a site with a blog section, you can read about them and get familiar with them as a person. It is highly doubtful that LE would ever go to that length to set up a sting.
Finally, if you have done this enough, you can just trust your own senses to carry the day; but that assumes that you trust them enough. If she is willing to carry on an email correspondence with you for a bit so that you can get comfortable with each other, that has worked for me.
One of my two favorite ladies is UTR and has no reviews. I found her on Craig's List two years ago as she was getting back into the business after a hiatus. You never know where you might find a great lady and the longer you do this the more you will learn about what to look for aside from reviews.
Identify ladies you would like to see on Eros or Cityvibe then check for reviews on TER. You could also PM another hobbyist in the same locale and ask for info.
Cleary it's more risky with an unreviewed lady as she is an unknown quantity. However, we all had to start somewhere in the business and all of us were unreviewed at some stage.
As long as you feel comfortable she's not LE and are prepared for the fact it might not be a great experience then there is no reason not to see unreviewed providers.
Sticking to provider's with a history of positive reviews is the better option, IMHO.
You JUST MIGHT find that little diamond in the ruff and give her her FIRST REVIEW!!
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DI