I'm looking for a very rough and sloppy bbbj with lots of filthy talk in the Bay Area.  I'm 28 and can provide plenty of references.  I don't want to push a provider past her limits or make her uncomfortable, so I'm looking for someone that is upfront about it and can handle it.  I've found several providers that come close, but not exactly what I'm looking for yet.  Thanks for any help.

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