Very classy - i like that! Appreciate the feedback.
Had to throw this one out there. Prolly asked lots times before but i gotta ask . . . whaddya think is best tasteful way to tell a provider to "freshen up" for a session?
I pride myself for keeping good hygiene and willfully agree on that request from providers but on occasion have encounteted scenarios that have me wince from the flowerpatch.
Hey i understand life is not perfect and folks cant always control body hormones, sweat glands and the like but nothing takes a session down quicker than an unpleasant scent within an intimate exchange (other than an arrogant rude or pushy provider).
Who's dealt with this before and how did you successfully handle it?
Providers please do weigh-in. Your take is sincerely appreciated!
Whenever I have someone who is less than fresh and didn't immediately take a shower upon arrival I always say something along the lines of "Hey, I want to make sure we're both fresh and enjoy each other, why don't you come take a shower with me?" They're more likely to take one with you and will think it's more "sexy" than mean.
Very classy - i like that! Appreciate the feedback.
its kind of hard when you're DATY when you find out, oops. Only had one of those and I believe she was nervous and new. Saw her go into the apt building just before me and I sure 'tinkled' just before I came in. Wasn't a big problem.
The one that 'shower' wouldn't work on for sure was the lady I saw and on first kiss she had 'c**k breath(back in the late '90's). Apparently someone had just left and she hadn't bothered to wash that part. No kissing after the first. As I have read, but not experienced, the k-girls start with the blue toast. Good for them and us.
saying "Hey, why don't we stop and take a quick shower and brush our teeth before continue.
I want to make sure we can really enjoy each other. " It's not ideal and she might wonder why you stopped but hey I'm sure it will work.
Like you said sometimes the bad breath can be a issue or finding out when you are already performing DATY
I personally shower before meeting anyone, but if someone arrives smelling funky, I'll tell them to take a shower & use soap.
In my experience, explaining that I have a sensitive nose (very annoying but true, can't be around cologne, perfume, sidewalks during traffic, most animals...) is readily accepted
....even if she's coming to you she should again still be pretty much freshly out of the shower.
If she's still smelling a little rough just tell her as politely as you can.
SOMETIMES it's not even what you say but how.
I pride myself for keeping good hygiene and willfully agree on that request from providers but on occasion have encounteted scenarios that have me wince from the flowerpatch.
Hey i understand life is not perfect and folks cant always control body hormones, sweat glands and the like but nothing takes a session down quicker than an unpleasant scent within an intimate exchange (other than an arrogant rude or pushy provider).
Who's dealt with this before and how did you successfully handle it?
Providers please do weigh-in. Your take is sincerely appreciated!
Personally I always ask for the last appointment of the day and request beforehand that she not freshen up. Just saying. I always shower upon arrival for her. That goes without saying. But for me I prefer her not to be fresh at all and bring a certain reality to the session.