Get a can of beer and watch the game.
When your first in the room with a provider, and she says "get comfortable", and goes in the bathroom, what does she mean? Undress completely? Unbutton your tie. Chose something between these two. I just seems weird to me to just be standing (or sitting) in my birthday suit when she comes back in the room. Also being a virgin hobbyist, I do not want to misstep badly in my first encounter. Finally I just like the undressing and foreplay as part of the whole experience. I have scheduled with a providor whos reviews indicate a true GFE. Thanks.
During a first encounter "get comfortable" means "get naked so I know that you are not LE". Don't worry, they've seen naked men before.
True. But it is also a way to let you know her comfort level is met and things are about to get started...lol
I agree. The "undressing each other" makes for so much better a session.
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I chose a two hour for my first time and had no clue what I was supposed to do, she was cool about it but looking back on it now she definitely took advantage of me not making a more aggressive move early on and padded an already late arrival with as much conversation as she could to eat up time.
My advice to a first timer would be you can plan all you want for how you will react but you will be nervous, and you will have to make a move or your time will get eaten up with talking like a regular date. No matter how much she likes telling you about her education or her favorite this or that you have to get her back on business or she will game you to the last minute.
I had one provider tell me immediately that I had to take off one item of clothing, but she didn't care what it was. So I took off my watch. She seemed unfazed.
I understand what you are saying about likeing undressing and foreplay, but unfortunately- what BostonGuy says is true. The first time you meet a provider, my experience has been that getting naked as quickly as possible assures her you are not LE.
After the session or when scheduling again with her- tell her you desires for next session and see how it goes.
You guys know Its nothing personal but with so much LE around... a girl can't be too careful. But I agree, for the second date tell her how you would like it to go.
Have to admit, I didn't know what that meant at first, but it means take off your clothes and get totally naked. Then the fun can start.
Get naked and have fun,
Swim
I usually strip down to my boxers. Many of the ladies I have seen like to remove them once things start to heat up.
I leave on the boxers and a buttoned down shirt. My ATF likes to unbutton the shirt and the boxers just kinda seem to wind up on the floor...
Of course, it's been well over a year of steady appointments so I'm pretty sure she knows I'm not LE...
Get a can of beer and watch the game.
having a client remove some or all of his clothes is absolutely no gurantee that he (or she) is not LE.
LE often must do things that are techincally "illegal" while they are working underground up to and including going all the way with a provider in order to prove that she (or he) intended to offer sexual services in exchange for money.
There have been more than a few such experiences exchanged on these boards to coroborate this.
(still not a lawyer)
I completely agree. Just as asking a guy if he is a cop doesn't make it entrapment if he says no and then cuffs you as soon as you pick up the envelope.
The real precautions start during the screening process.